unfortunately for most of us, our MILs are KPOs.. they cannot help but comment on things that are none of their business. but what to do.. she's your hubby's mother... ask hubby to speak to her?Hi to all mummies out there, guess almost everyone has problems with their mother in law. Mine had always been there if you had read my previous posts, but im really reaching my limit!!
I had recently got a new maid, she is great! she dotes on my kids very much and she is good with the housework. Compared to my 1st maid, she is like god-sent!
My mum had been teaching my maid how to prepare meals for my kids n me as my mother in law's cooking is CMI... -_- and my maid learnt fast. But there is a prob, my mother in law would always want to interfere in her cooking. As a result, the dishes are always spoilt due to her kpo-ness... I told her not to care as the maid knows what she is doing and seriously, whatever she cooked is far better which she herself agreed too...but still, she loves to interfere!
Then she will ask my maid to do alot of things, like simple things - pour a glass of water for her...wa lau! my mother in law got hands got legs and she is only 50, yet she is so lazy! I said before, the reason y i got a maid is to mind my kids, making sure they are well taken care of, the rest can wait. Yet, behind my back she is doing all these! Im worried that my maid would 1day cannot take it and decided not to work for me anymore, then where can i get help??
We are looking for a place to move, but she will still be staying with us, coz its an agreement i had with my hubby which im regretting EVERYDAY! I cun wait for the day when this agreement expired and she has to move out and and stay with us anymore!!
I cun stand looking at her, cun stand hearing her voice just simply cun stand her presence!!! ARGH!!!