This is a discussion on An unhappy confinement period within the Home Life, Relationships & Finance forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Originally Posted by bbgal_2010 sigh ..feeling so lousy todae as i guess my family member had forgotten my birthdae...birthday n ...
How about when she is back to m'sia who is going to help you? However, the part time maid is only when you cannot manage in the early stage.
Since she wanna help you then tell her, tell her before she starts helping you go learn how to use the life, on the TV, go marketing etc... LOL. if not she not only not helping you but giving you more work. On top of that the most important thing is that everyday you hubby confirm will stay out late.
And all her work must do up to your standard since now you have a baby, cleanliness and hygiene are very important.
Hey, you can get your CL to cook pork chop for you. My CL asked me sick of the confinement food, wanna eat pork chop? But she cook in confinement style . She also stew chicken with mushroom and potatoes *drooling*. i misses my CL cooking, must invite her to my place to stay 2 days when she comes to SG.
Therefore this is how i spend my bdae...in the rm watching tv whole dae ever since i wake up,BF BF BF,eat eat eat,lastly saw my hubby @ 12.45am...he went bathe...lalala...expecting to hear"happi bdae"lalalala.....come out he told mi...
VERI TIRED I sleep 1ST TML COR MI WAKE UP @8am...good NITE>>>>>>ZZZZZZZZZ(snoring)...............End of my bdae.........
HAHAHA....31 mar......my bdae watch TV...GREAT!!!!!
your dear husband also another one.
if my bf gg to pull this kinda stunt, i kick him off the bed.
i tell you, DONT LET YOUR mother in law STAY IN SG N HELP you.
if she cant simply do such simple n common sense things like on the TV (which my baby pin already learnt how to when she was arnd 1 yo or less), seriously, things arent gg to get better at all!!!
you really need to talk to your hubby about this.he cant just bochap everything, stay out late n leave you to deal with your mother in law yourself.
this is both your responsibility, n not solely yours only.
he also know his mum's pattern, all the more he shld stand on your side n help you!
Do not argue with an idiot. He will drag you down to his level and beat you with experience.
bbgal, if i were you, i will just tell my mother in law off! just scream at her "you dont give me any trouble, i will be very thankful n BOW at you alrdy! i dont need your help at all, since you're not helping me at all! go back to your kampong!" okay, i sound rude, but bo bian, being rude is better than you getting depression, right?
yeah me too.
imagine she come for 3 mths, then go back 2 weeks, then come 3 mths again....
Ask her if she wants to sleep yet ppl dont let her sleep, how she feels? it apply the same to baby.
you die she happy nia. Since she wanna make life difficult for you, then make life difficult for your hubby. Force your hubby to do something about it, dont waste your $2k.
Tell your hubby you r not the one who face and kena all the SHITS. "REN" got limit one.
Just like me, a few weeks ago, argue with my father in law. After that i told my hubby off, i will not let my STUPID father in law 3rd time to ask me to move out from the house. So when the house is available, i die die will move out. IF not later anything happen, dont say i dont never warn you or give anyone face (confirmed will pack my stuffs and bring my gals back to my own house).
she is ignoring my message to her as told you guys before told her not to feed water she can gv my gal gripe water even my gal nver cry she say is help to prevent...but xplain to her she nver listens.
Terrible , do as she pleases and never care about how pple feel.....you really have to talk to your hubby, if need be cry in front of him (if he is the soft type) or throw tantrum at him (if he is the hard type) to get your way, this cannot go on......
Pardon my harsh words. But Seriously, I think you're too soft already. So many things happen already you still wanna cincai to your mother in law. The more you behave lydat the more she is going to bully you. You let her get her way lydat, not only you suffer, your CL also suffer with you. Come on, wake her and your hubby up!