YES GAL!!! you DID IT!! Finally you stand firm.. after i reading it, i feel happi for you.. right now, is time for you to keep on standing up to them. and hmm.. hope you dont feel angry for me saying this.. can understand y your hubby blow up and shouted at you, coz he really feel sianz with 2 women. (not saying its your fault here) mind me from asking, before your mother in law came, is your hubby like that? i think even how worst he can be, he still love and dote you.. just think back, and forgive him a bit can !!! no need too much.
and dear gal, now you still confinement lei, try not to be so angry, bad for health.. and your dear daughter ok? coz my mummy say not good to quarrel in front of baby..
as for right now, you dont do anything.. wait n see the situation how first.. since you already make your stand that you not going back to JB, then just bo chap.. they can do all they want.. maybe call your father in law and tell him what's going on here, he sure will understand , as i can see your father in law should be quite understanding right? Let him know y you can't go back so that when your crazy mother in law goes back, she doesn't bullshit in front of the relatives and make you and your hubby paiseh, like ill-treating her or what.
your hubby scold you in front of his mum.. well i can say is not good.. but i just assume maybe he wans his mum to shut up that's y he blast out at you (that's just comforting yourself) and when he scold his mum.. he just wans you to know he cares about you.. but at the same tme, sick of been sandwiching in between.. -.-"
anyway, now dont make him choose between you and his mum, if not sure quarrel and he'll be more sick to go home. wait till his mum goes back then say, or wait for a few days then see how..
last but not least, dont be sad.. take care of yourself and dear daughter..