i think if put a vote...for my monster in law...she will get 10/10....
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ya i suppose i should write a book on my 'monster in law' BEST MONSTER IN LAW.I think if i sent this to TCS sure alot ppl condemn this monster in law & who koe maybe that fellow can get award too... & my hubby is reali useless as he totally bo chap he oni koe hw to say you koe what to do ...i'm veri tired i want to sleep...then he zzzzzz n i'm the oni one who take care of my gal alone...then 7+ wake up cook breakfast for this MONSTER..noon cook lunch then 6+ cook dinner worse then a maid ...at least maid can rest during nite but me ...work like 24hr...serving my monster in law n my hubby. I guess one day mi n my hubby tok less then 10 sentence...okay dont believe i count out what he said to me...
Morning 8.30>>>>i go work ...take care
9pm>>>>>>>>>>what you cook? okay coming back for dinner...
11pm>>>>>>>>>oh baby..clap clap....play for 10 mins
11.15pm>>>>>>>i very tired..i sleep 1st
i think if put a vote...for my monster in law...she will get 10/10....
oh ya...todae i showed my hubby the expenses she spend here in singapore for those days i bought her around...guess what my hubby say...is okay...she seldom come to singapore.what else can i say..
Oh i guess my confinement experience is the most DRAMA one....anyone got more DRAMA then mine...pls let me koe, at least i'm not the worse dwn here....n i guess there are more nightmare to come...n i guess veri soon my mouth is going to stink too...coz at home i'm like a mute...dont wish to tok to my monster...n for my hubby we tok oni less then 10 sentence...work like mad...even busier then my working life...=(
Really pity you.....you are really in an island of your own, have to defend yourself too.....no cannot defend, both ways also you have to surrender, only your daughter is your only comfort now
Your mother in law is too much & your hubby........
Mayb you can start a blog or a hobby? it can be something that made you look forward to after a tired day.....mayb you can make a scrapbook detailing your daughters birth till now, what are her expressions, journal it down
You should really write a book to get your mind off things!
Title: Can your MONSTER IN LAW be worse than MINE?
Yeah usually at moments like this you are supposed to find comfort in your hubby or in family. Its best to start a hobby or in something to vent yourself out and also give yourself some myself time.
This chicken soup cost 1.5k...she asked me for 1.5k. My dad passed away @ 2002..n left her a house in serangoon. She sold the house away n gamble away with the $ less then a yr..all the $ is gone..n she has a man with her who is a taxi driver...whom i hated the most in my life...(peep on me when i was bathing when i'm staying with my mum, touch me when i'm sleeping) When i told my mum bout it..all i get was a tight slap..asking me dont anyhow say...ask me to shut up.Therefore @ the age of 16, i ran away from home n rent a room for myself...(work n study @ the same time as this stupit man told my mum that if i want to study should work on my own..no need to gv me $ for studies as gal no need study so much)
This is the period of time i get to know my hubby..lucky for me as he totally supported me in leaving my house. But my mum was not worried at all. She just left a message with my aunt asking me if want stay out dont ever think of coming back as the house dont welcome me..till she koe i was leading a good life..with a good job..she cor me n told me: let forget the past
This stupit man told me that he n my mum wanted to buy a house...n i can't expect my mum to sleep on the street rite? Therefore asked me every month gv them $800 for their allowance..till now every month i been transfering $800 to them..unless i missed the date if not my mum dont bother to cor me n checked hw am i?Till now my mum dont even koe i have given birth.
When she need $, She will cor me to go up for a bowl of soup...that cost me a few thousand..unless i'm totally crazy...who will go up to drink a bowl of chicken soup that cost thousand? Will you?
As for my aunt, sigh borrow $ from me...but when i asked them to return...this is what she said to me...i dont have $ you want my life? Therefore i'm so sick with my family..i just treat as they are no longer existing..they oni koe how to ask you for $..knowing that you are leading good life mah...but they did not koe the effort i've put in, in order to get good life.
i guess this is my 3rd time mentioning my mum...haha.Well i guess if you read my story it's reali like a drama...how i ran out of the house with no $ at all,work>> gal pushing the trolley selling $10 items(every $10 i oni earn $2,have to sell 30 sets) coz oni this job can pay me everyday in order for me to rent a room in those cheap hotel @ bencoolen street.Oni have bread for my breakfast lunch n dinner...last time weight was around 70kg lose all the fats till 53kg...haha tho life was hard...but is a enjoyable memories on how i survive thru hard time..i guess wifout those hard time...i'll not be what i'm todae..=)
Read your story, wow, your life really like drama.
I also not happy and stress during my confinement period but find that your mother in law really horrible , i am salute to you for your super patience on her.
bbgal, my heart goes to you. sry to say that, if i have such mother, i dont even bother to give her a single cents! you're too kind hearted that's y always get bullied.
i alway believe that there are ppl out there worse then mine...=)kinda make myself happi if i think this wae.=)
Babe HATS OFF to you.I have never gone through all this and thought my life was bad.Just like you my dad pass away in 2005.My mum then became super protective about my siblings. Just like you there was a hard period of time my husband saw me through and we eventually married.I really salute and respect you but look beyond this YOUR BABY IS VERY LUCKY TO HAVE A STRONG MUM WHO HAS GONE THROUGH SO MUCH.She will be there for you all the way.Sorry if i asked you questions to make you upset.Anytime you want vent just look for me k.
dear gal, you have been very strong. I really admire you. Your gal is really lucky in having you as a mother.
Really feel sorry for you you are a strong woman and have been through so much! Take your mother in law issues as a pince of salt.
no choice..kinda respect my hubby & do not want to create a big fuss...if i can tahan...=) i will try tahan...if cannot then he better b careful as my volcano might erupt one day.
OMG bbgal .. your mother in law is ........................... nth to say.... BEST OF ALL .. If mine was like that i think i can bang wall alrd... I hope after my confinement & move to my hubby hus tihng will nth happen ..
As what they say.. Go write a blog or something.... In future let your child read it..
BEst mother dae gift is my monster go back to malaysia...that is the best gift ever!!!
bbgal, i really admire n salute you!
you r really very strong n brave n POSITIVE!
thats the most impt thing that keeps you going!
n i think, you shld change your number n stop giving money to your mum..
given the way she treated you, what for??
i really feel sad for you to know how she treated you that way..
but also, thats the reason why you turn out to be so strong!
life will be better for you, i believe in karma, good karma will come for those who do good.