babe, cool down.. i think this is the most common thing many mummies here face.
my parents also always wanna feed dear son with all these junk foods, said i'm too strict with him. however, i stand very firm, told them i will not allow dear son to eat such foods! lucky nowadays my mum slowly accepts it, and will even tell my relatives cannot anyhow feed dear son.
my aunt came to my place during CNY and let dear son taste the dried guava, lucky my mum went to stop her. she even told her firmly that her grandson cannot eat such foods, all for the sake of his health.
i'm consider pretty lucky that my parents still will listen to me and my mother in law is very health conscious. cos i will use my mother in law to say my mum. will tel my mum "my mother in law say all these junk food cannot feed baby!" haha!