i think i will chose no.2 no.1 also can .....In a PUBLIC space where there are people walking by &/or sitting down nearby, if your hubby shouts at you or expresses his displeasure with you while gesticulating wildly in a very loud voice (despite you crying), do you
1) Keep quiet & let him shouts all he wants & then say your piece
2) Walk away immediately & let him shout like a bloody fool
3) Shout back immediately at him. Since he does not want face, neither do
4) Tell him to calm down first. Whatever he wants to shout at you can be
shouted out loudly at home. In this way, only the surrounding neighbours
know, not all & sundry. In other words, you are embarrased only 'in front'
of your neighbours, not in front of all the passers-by or those who are
sitting nearby. (However, bear in mind that since this volcano in front of
you is erupting in full force already, whatever pacifying words you say is
a mere drizzle).