No i think you have done your best as a mum n as a wife.Its your idiot husband who is just sitting there laying eggs.
Maybe you need to point out to him exactly wht he is doing wrong n in comparison wht you r giving up for him n the family.
I cant stand men like tht.
Wht minimum duty is he talking about?ha?got guide book is it tht he thinks you r not up to it?bloody hell..if its me i wld have lost it n whacked him or leave the kids with him n go for long hol or for a break.Then let him enjoy the fun.
Look after baby when you r sick?thts ridiculous.When he gets sick next time n expects you to run around him..DONT!
Dont feel sad ok..i have seen your baby pics n all n i know you have put in great effort n you r a very loving mum n wife!!Dont let anyone tell you otherwise!!