where did you get this true story from? i'm curious of one thing, y she hates her no2 so much??
This is a discussion on what kind of mother is this? within the Home Life, Relationships & Finance forum, part of the You and Your Family category; True story This mother is in her mid twenties. She has 4 daughters. Age all 2 years apart. 2, 4, ...
This mother is in her mid twenties. She has 4 daughters.
Age all 2 years apart. 2, 4, 6 and 8 years old.
She hated her no. 2 daughter to the core, so she'd always throw this no. 2 to her mother-in-law. She makes all 3 brush teeth but not no. 2. Resulting in badly decayed teeth. All others are allowed to keep beautiful long hair but no. 2's hair makes you think that she's a dumbo. All others allowed to bath in warm water but not no. 2. Yes, all 4 are her own flesh and blood. All are given adequate food but again, not no. 2. When no. 2 went to grab some biscuits in the kitchen, mommy made sure she have it hard - beating and banished outside the house until mommy simmer down. She then explained to her other daughters that no. 2 shouldn't steal food like that. BUT No. 2 said, "mommy always forget my share of rice".
She then started cheating with a married man. Brought her daughters along to the hotel together with this man. She'd always throw no. 2 to her mother in law. So can we say luckily for no. 2, mommy does not like her? Yes, there is evidence. Daughters, admitted. Pictures, taken. Man, confronted.
All her daughters are made to lie for her mom. Yes, this mother went to have sex with a married man in a hotel and made her children go with her. Over the cheating period, she made her daughters think that it's ok to lie, cheat, sleep with other man, etc. Initially, daughters were defensive and lips were extremely tight. Showed that mommy has been threatening or scaring them in some ways. Until husband came home one day, found the married man bathing in his house, the daughters couldnt really lie anymore. BUT still, trying to defend their mommy.
Over the years, this woman has dumped her no. 2 and many times, 3 daughters to her mother in law. Reasons: go out with friends. Mother in law happily take care of them even though she does not have her own house. Even though everybody knows that she's out with this married man, mother in law still no choice, gotta take care of her grand-daughters. Exam period: mommy went to live with him in a hotel for more than 2 months. All this time, her mother in law was taking care of the girls. Even though the girls showed no manners to her, bullied her, made her buy things for them, ordered her around, etc. Everybody (relatives, friends and family) advised her to enjoy her life, but she just couldn't. This mother in law dare not book trips to go with relatives because she was afraid that the kids might not have anyone to take care of if that woman were to go missing again.
Once, during the 2 months missing and cheating period, this woman suddenly wanted to speak to her no. 1. She called her mother in law hp twice but nobody answered. The third time finally got through, she screamed at her mother in law, "WHERE THE HELL IS ***???" Upon hearing that, her mother in law, for the first time, retaliated, "Where are your manners?? I've been taking care of your children when your out, having sex with that married man??!! Now I happened to have missed your first 2 calls, you actually raised your voice at me?? Tell you what, you better come back this minute and take care of your own daughters!"
This woman came back the next day. You think she was scared? No, she told all her daugters that nobody is allowed to go out with grandma anymore, because grandma said she dont't want to take care of you all anymore!
where did you get this true story from? i'm curious of one thing, y she hates her no2 so much??
sigh.... she's none other then my.....
we dont really know why but suspect because:
1. no. 2 is daddy's girl and no. 1 is her fave. so when no. 1 and no. 2 having siblings quarrel, i guess things just went ugly?
2. no. 2 compared to the other 3... how shld i put it... always saying wrong things and stuff like that.
3. when daddy is around, no. 2 dont really listen to mommy.
I think this woman is too much. You wanna have affairs then dont show your daughters? How to have a proper upbringing?
Further more, no 2 her own flesh n blood.
I think she really deserve to be taught a good lesson. The kids should be separated from her. What kinda mother and wife is she?
i have heard of cases whereby the mum hates one of her children
actually we dont know why/how in the earth can a mother hate her own child? But it does happen in reality due to some reasons which we dont understand as outsiders
but the gals will be so affected in their childhood by their mother's wrong doings, which is very sad.
ya i know her personally. very fake woman. we've been helping her for several years. listened to all her lies and craps for several years now. enough is enough.
i think she dare not cut off her mother in law completely cause mother in law gives her money every now and then. SIGH.
ya, what have the world become... i mean she dared to leave her young girls with the married man you know...
leaving her own daughters with that man is very dangeroius so no one knows what will happen! omg!!!
we all dont know why but she just dont like him
a child's childhood must be flawless. Becoz anyding you do anyding you say, its all inside their mind, and this will affect how they do things, see things, react and be an adult next time. So i can say horrr, yr friend has ruined her own dds childhood, and i dont know how is she going to save this. Especially those older kids, they remember things and will affect them more.
ya apollo mummy... very dangerous right... this mommy is... SIGH
anyway, they found a bottle of vodka inside their hotel room (beside a tin of milk powder) the PI managed to sneak into hotel room while chambermaid was clearing stuff.
oh her mother in law is a super softie. a kindred spirit. everybody nagged at her but in the end, she'll get all soft-hearted. maybe if she's a lil fierce and selfish, her daughter in law will not step over her like this. last yr CNY, this mother in law bought dresses for her grand daughters. you know those normal princesss style dresses. sigh, that woman actually commented that they looked like clown clothes! her mother in law was hurt. Honestly, i saw those dresses, they're just some pretty girl's dresses. nothing clownish at all. To buy 2 sets each x 4 is not cheap. Besides that, the girls wanted expensive shoes. Not a word of thank you never mind, how could she say that.
In the end, you know what she bought for her girls? tubes, tights, mini skirts, etc. fashionable is one thing. to make your young daughters wear sexy tight clothes is another! this mother really got problem.
If this is all really happening, it's bloody terrible!
Pineappletart, please get in contact with uncle.
Uncle will call MCYS child protection unit and arrest the mother....
Would the daughters be willing to talk to a counsellor and tell her the truth?
The "mother" is destroying her children!
Guess maybe get someone better then MCYS....???? The most is the children get sent to the children home which I think is rather bad too...
hmmm, it's an old wives tale laa, but my mum say last time ppl say, if they have 3 or more kids, #2 will be the one that the parents dislike most.. haha but not in my case laaa, im #2 n my parents seem to dote on me most..
actually there is a true life story similar to this, its this man n he wrote a few books (iirc, shld be 3 books) on his life..
the first book is called " A BOY CALLED IT". (his mum refer him as a IT rather than a HE.)
second book cant rmb the name, think the last book is called: A MAN CALLED DAVE. (dave is his real name)
it talks about his life on how his mum abused him n then he got saved n went into foster homes etc..
similarly, he is the only kid (out of a few siblings he had) that his mum abuse...the rest she treated them ok/well.
i agree with uncle sam, if this is really happening, get the relevant authorities to investigate n save these poor kids!
wonder what will their life be as they grow up in this unhealthy environment....
how about the hubby? since he knows about it, what actions r he taking???
Do not argue with an idiot. He will drag you down to his level and beat you with experience.
uncle, it depends on the husband and family too.. the one i know, the mother got many nearly kanna arrest but the hisband beg the police and tell him it is their family issue, he will settle on his own. and this lead the lil boy to be emotionally hurt now. =(
And for Pineappletart, i think you should contact authority regarding this... the mother really crazy and she is abusing her own daughters mentally?!
i must say she is not capable and in the correct state of mind to taking care of children!
her husband wants to work things out i guess. quite hopeless talking to him.
always talk but no action. always asking for opinions and advice but never carry out.
"im going to divorce her!"
"im in the law firm now"
"i'll never forgive her"
"i'll get custody of all the girls no matter what"
"i'll make sure she pays for it!"
my hubby and i have stopped answering his calls/ sms already. how do you help someone when you go all out and then in the end he sms you say they got back together????? not once, not twice. but three times already!
i just feel really sorry for this mother in law.
Sorry to say this but since the parents so hopeless, we also cant be bothered to do much. Moreover my own baby coming out to this world soon.
Btw, this is not fictional. They're real ppl living in Tiong Bahru area.
My husband also have copies of the pictures taken by the PI. Maybe after he return home fr work, I'll ask him to help me scan and upload the pic.
My mother in law once told me dat now dat i have kids, i will soon find that I love one more than e rest. I cant imagine doin dat, I love both my girls e same. But she emphasized that it will happen one day n dat I ll realise it......errr.... She has 3 sons, hubby is e eldest. She said she loves e 2nd son e most!
But my mom brought me up telling me dat always treat yr kids equally n dat is what my values are today.