=( do you intend to forgive your husband? the lil ones are innocent and needs a father.Hi all!
I am in a nasty situation.. i need comments and advise, pls help..
I caught my husband having an affair a month ago, very ugly way whereby deep in my heart, itz an end of our 11 yrs marriage, divorce will be my choice . To me he has been a good husband, never in my dream that he will lie and did such thing behind me for a year plus..
While i am still at the stage of accepting this truth, i am 4 weeks pregnant..This pregnancy is actually planned cos since we've married for so long, i think now we are financially and mature enough to have a baby.
I am very very stress now, cant focus on anything..i have to make this diifficult decision..I want my baby but i cant forgive my husband too..i doubt my ability being a single mum..and my husband sayz, he will fight for his rights as a father legally if we are divorce n i m keeping the baby..Cos he knowz that i will let my baby have my surname and won't state his name as father in birth cert...
Looking into such situation, can anyone give me some suggestion?? thanks..