I knw you dont feel good n feel Wei Qu too BUT did you ever thought of how your dear husband will feel n how is it like to b sandwiched in between 2 women which r equally important to him coz tis woman is sum1 who went thru 9mths of suffering n many yrs of hard raising to what he is for now.
I can say all these bcoz i been thru what you faced n in fact worse than you, my mother in law refused to let my dear husband help me but i still respect her n say nothing at all with all sort of accusations frm her coz dear husband aso dont feel good. 1 hand feel sad, knw that wife is suffering n wei qu yet just cant do anything much n on another hand is sum1 who raised him till who he is now. It is very hard for him to do much too. Btw my dear husband is aso a navy guy who often sails.