This is a discussion on what will you do when someone harass or blackmail you ? within the Home Life, Relationships & Finance forum, part of the You and Your Family category; I would highly recommend you do this Take this email with the offensive picture and lodge a police report. Please ...
I would highly recommend you do this
Take this email with the offensive picture and lodge a police report.
Please do not let this low life scumb get away.
What a scumb, only dare to bully woman and ask for $$$ and S*X *PUI*
Do you know which company he is working at? Send the email to his boss or HR.
I cant tolerate such a scumb!!!!! SCUMB SCUMB SCUMB
Last edited by crystalpink; 29-09-2011 at 01:49 PM.
Did you mention anything on facebook ?? So serious already you havent report the police ?? Is he a member of this forum too ??
For the pictures once you report police , the police will handle the case . Think this case is quit serious , he could be jail
Oh dear think you better hurry to make a report to stop him and away from fear ..
yes, on my FaceBook, I'm going to make police report today with all the supporting I have, thank you so much all of you for your support N advice.
Lets get this pervert jailed or reputation tarnished.
Go strong girl, you can do it.
A mistake made is ok, what matters most is not to repeat it.
Never submit to blackmail else it would get worse.
Do you want to live your whole life in fear like now ?
Just come clean and confess to your hubby and go to the police .
Then go and confront that man and show everything to his wife also ...
If this is what he want to "play" , make sure he lose everything also .
finally, today I make a police report already, I have submitted all my supporting documents to the poice officer for investigations, his contact numbers, address, working place, etc., they wiill call him up later, they assured me, everythings will be OK, if anythings happen again, they will catch him.
do you think they will call him up later or catch him later if he harass or blackmail me again ?
please advice ?
Yes they would. Please have trust in our police force
Take a deep breath and dont't let fear get better of you.
I do not suggest you tell this to your hubby unless it is really needed, ignorance is a bliss.
If that scum ever contact you in any form, please contact the police officer immediately. what a fuc*king low life. Only dare to bully woman.
Agree reporting to police is the best choice.
And same as Edy, dont't tell your hubby yet, unless the situation get out of control or worse. BUt if one day he need to know just make sure you really want to have a good future with him and your child.
Good luck and hopefully the guy will stop all this yah
I just cant tolerate man whom bullied woman. What a wimpy!
He should let this go and keep the lovely memory instead of terrorizing a wife and mother whom tried to do the right thing for her family.
Most probably will arrest him to investiage ,from the way he harass is totally sick , as police will have a way to deal this as it has already is a case .
But last time i report similar is a harass case but a bit different from you , mine is not S** and $$ , only keep track of my sight , taking down my daily routine, and everyday give me nonsense cal ,the police already go arrest him and he being charge after his mental report out is normal . My case he go jail one year plus and the police say he wouldn dare to do it again after he came out
he call, sms N email me, scolding me with all those words #%^&*()__%$##, how dare I make the police report, as the police officer call him up to come to the police station for answering N investigations, I think he really mad at me now, he say he will he will do all sorts of things to make everybody knows my secret, upload super impose pictures of me, spare with bad remarks / things about me etc, I dare him back, you do then if you have the guts / balls, you go ahead, I scold him back with those words #%^&*()__%$## back, hahahahahahaha, see you then in police lockup 1 day, I hope he just saying only not really do.
NOW, is my another BIG PROBLEM, how am I going to tell my hubby, I know 1 day this problems will come up / my hubby will find up himself later, then, BIG PROBLEMS for me, I dont want my family / relationship to be sour / problems later, as I just have baby gal few months back too, how then ?
please please please all, advice me how to settle this problems ? I know I make a BIG MISTAKE last time (everybody makes mistakes too, OK), I regret now myself all this while, think back, also I'm the 1 who want to end this relationships first, not him, as I know 1 day, this will spoil / ruin my family life later, thats why I want a STOP this but he dont 1, thats why this harassment / blackmails problems comes up, all he wants is to continues as it is, what he want from me, you all know, no need to say this, I regret regret regret myself this doing this, even when I'm in 3rd semenster pregnancy, he still wants it, damn bastard too $^*()__*^%$##.
please advice ?
Hi Lady In Red,
You have to prepare for damage control. When your hubby starts to pursue this you can come clean and ask for forgiveness.
Be strong and accept the responsibilities due to the mistake which you made.
Two things would come out from this:
1. You are no longer under the threat of this scum.
2. You can lift up high your head, yes you made mistake but you dare to face it and do the right thing.
Focus on your baby gal and family.