This is a discussion on What's the hardest thing to salvage a relationship/marriage? within the Home Life, Relationships & Finance forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Originally Posted by shopaholic The trust and the feeling of love. agree totally....
trust and love.
I was once in the state whereby totally no love at all (that was the first bf time lolx), i just simply hate the way he talks, move, do or everything. So bad that things can turn to.
I think trust is the hardest thing to salvage in a marriage. It takes a long time to build trust but just a moment to break it.
for me, everything is hard to salvage. Be it love, trust etc.
once broken. . its broken...
very cutie ...hahahhaha every1 notice this thread is ONE year old bo?
last posted date is 07-12-2007 05:19 PM ....hahahhaha
me love digging out old threads....kekekeke
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haha yeah 20Oct, aiyo my boy birth date, can imagine that day i was in labour hahaaa.....
during dating days, my bf whom is my husband now went to visit p********e, but still, i'm married to him.
To me i agree that love is the most impt thing a couple must have, no more means no more marriage. I encountered this before, my hubby and i during courtship days, once left me when he had another woman in his heart. I was totally heartbroken because i tried and tried to win him back with my love for him. But to no avail, until i was psycho by my aunt and friends to give him up. just when i wanted to do that, he asked for another chance. But that was because i exposed that bit*ch true self to him. He regretted for all the things he had ever done to me when i was begging him to come back. Now we are happily married and totally devoted to me as he now knows who is the one who truly cares for him.
I think its trust,respect and if one or another leaves home whenever there is a quarrel.
IMHO, I think its love, trust and respect. Without all these 3 together, it's pretty hard to make a r/s work.
No use carrying on with the r/s when there's no more love in it, you are just forcing yourself.
If you can't even trust your other half, then what's the use of continuing, when you keep being suspicious of whatever he/she does, causing yourself more pain and stress.
Without respect, the r/s wouldn't be able to work, as both of you will be stepping on each other toes all the time, lots of arguments and such. A home and family is a place where one finds their own refuge and have not.
it's whether you can forgive and forget
i find its easier to forgive than to forget, coz you might have forgiven the mistake but the thought of how it happened still lingers in the mind.....so actually will nebber forget deeee
yah i also think, can never forget something which hurt you so deeply..
maybe at certain point of time you wont rmb, but thruout your life, sure got things that trigger that memory...
yeah yeah so best is to think think think before we do anydddin that might leave an everlasting "mark" to our loved onesssss
Yes LOVE and TRUST is very very important. Without that then there will be quarrels almost everyday... No happiness at all only sadness...