yes my mum helps.
well she nags about this and that, nags to me, nags to my dad, nags to my bro....we quarreled on and off....and she has insomnia also....(due to taking care of my boy at night when he was an infant)...under medication....but she is fine ..and still insists to look after my boy although i wanted her to rest....
at the end of the day, she is still my very one and only mummy. so sometimes when i am angry will scream at her....but will apologize after wards....i feel i am very insensible sometimes but her nagging really makes me irritated.
everyday i will tell myself to be nice to her, tahan her nagging more....tell her she is really very sacrificing to me....yes, i can do it!
hahhaa....but my dad has become someone whom i can talk with more freely now....perhaps he is more rational regarding taking care of babies and more open to suggestions and methods....last time i used to be so distant from him....now feels closer to him than to my mum.
time after work will be just housework and spending time with my attention seeker boy. On top of that help out hubby in his work also. Usually sleeps after 12mn....and online at this forum and msn chat....hahahaha....now got more 'time'.
i bring my boy home everyday since he was 2.5months old. Rain or shine.