This is a discussion on Will you let your in-laws know how much your earning? within the Home Life, Relationships & Finance forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Originally Posted by CanCanMum sure anot? i m a mother in law lover ~~~ *you believe?* you mean your mother in law ...
Lets set up an ANti-MILs clubb
will hab members bo?
okies anti-inlaws clubbb
will kenna blacklist anotz lols~~~
Think we all should move in to m'sia and come in & out of s'pore to work in order to be a rich ppl like what cancanmum mother in law think..
okay laaa, besides all the "SG PPLE ARE RICH" mentality, my mother in law is considered a nice lady laa...
she took great care of me n baber during confinement. And she served me like a queen
BUT she dumped the "responsibility" to my MUM IMMEDIATELY the day before she went home, just a sentence from her : "its time for yr mum to look after, JUST NICE"
and after that, she refused to help out once in a while, although we provided a nice, aircon bedroom for her to stay over, so that my mum can rest once in a while. She has a FIRM no.
I guess up til now I'm quite fortunate bah..
My mother in law didn't ask money from any of us, instead she knows my hubby earns little, so she always ask if we got enough money to use anot..
Although my pay varies cuz every one-quarter got variable bonus due to company's profit, but the money we saving for baby..
Even our engagement, they forked out money but didn't want any back and asked us to keep cuz give birth, expenses, baby items all need money to buy.. then when baby come out need a lot injection all those..
And my own mother still working, and my step-father can still feed my mum if she's not working so my mum told me to save money myself for my own use in the future... dont everything rely on hubby.. My mum is a single mum who brought me up by herself, so she told me IF 1 DAy hubby dont want me i still got savings ~
Cos i tend to know that nowadays still got those typical auntie living in the olden days wish to have a grandson desperately ..