you just go back to wkforce? i think you need some time to readjust your own schedule etc.. usually for me, i will get my own time after dear son gone to bed at night. and when my hub comes hm, he will try to help as much as he can.
as for you, i suppose it is very diffi and almost impossible to get your own time during working hours. mayb you n your hub can take turns? he also help out at hm after wk? while you have your very own time? and also take some time to acc your baby.. time can always be arranged, you have to trial and error. =)