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No need to wonder . it will be none of your business anyway.
Omg pls leave this man! Can you imagine it getting worst if one day you really conceive n put on more weight during pregnancy? Also I think the reason why he wants kids is just maybe for the sake of continuing his family line etc. What if you conceive a gal n he starts saying it's your fault?? dont't waste time on him anymore. He's not worth it!
For a man to lay his hands on a woman, he's not worth it. since you dont have kids yet. it's much easier to leave him. dont wait till you have kids, and if he abuse you and the kid, it'll be so much more difficult as you have brought an innocent kid into this world.
at the start of my marriage i've already told my husband that if he ever lay hands on me i'll walk out immediately. so far no matter how much arguement we have and how angry he is, he doesnt dare lay hands on me.
for me, i've left my husband recently. separated for now. staying over at my parents. he's been flirting around with other woman. some colleagues. the day i decided to leave, i called some colleague of his to ask (cause i know them personally too). so found out the truth about some things. he did not slepp with them but i think i've had enough of the flirty ways. i've packed up many times but didnt leave. this time i callled my dad in the middle of the night when we're quarrelling and asked him to pick me up the next day. he knew i'm done with this marriage. i took my two kids and left.
my mum told me too think carefully what my next step is. dont rush through it. and whatever my decision is, they'll be there to support me. and i also have my mother in law who is supportive of me. she is sad that this is happen and does hope that there's still a chance between us. she says i'm her daughter in law and also meant like her child and she doesnt want to see her child suffer. so if i think this is the best, she will not stop me also. really thankful to have them around.
anyway if you think you should leave him, do it before you have his kids. they're the most innocent ones who doesnt deserve to face all this crap that their parents are going thru.
Last edited by marie; 21-07-2011 at 12:18 PM.
Did you ask yourself that if you have a baby with him will he change the way he treats you now?
If you get preggy youll gain weight and will he stop looking at ither women?
Think of your future while you still can.