I do have the spotting problem too but i didnít go hospital for it. As i cant afford that kind of leave, my job is already at sake with the contract not going to be renew.
But please do rest more. Yes its tough with the standard of living in Sg.
I have a diploma part time course, contract job with boss expectation of full time staff of working beyond office hours, and keep putting me down that i have temp attitude just because i go home on time... and tons of school assignment with tight deadlines.. i wonder how i had been through all these times. I dontít have much rest with the evening classes 2 times per weekday and 1 full day for sat course. Being sick also need to log on to laptop office network to work. And knowing the fact that chances of getting my maternity leave is zero, sometimes i feel my future looks so dim.
What can i do about it? I just taking things at the time and living each day praying that my baby is ok, despite of spotting problem. On and off i do have that problem and just hope i can go through daily without much hassle.
Sometimes even have bad morning sickness and cant even eat at all.. but i do try to eat something and rest more only. This baby is very important to me as we had been trying for 4 years and finally it come to us, its something i wish to bring to this world.
Sorry i can go on and on but dontít feel too down. Things will be better. Be happy