This is a discussion on EDD Aug 2011 within the Year 2011 and earlier Mummy forum, part of the Mummy Meeting Place category; Originally Posted by Purpeace Jovin, Just relax, dont't stress and dont worry about your supply of breast milk. Continue to latch ...
I latch on day.. and night pump.. sometimes noon i also pump if not tired. No idea how long i can ta han this.. but i really see the supply almost fainted... is like waste my sleep pumpin this little. Anyway i will continue to hang in there.. hope tml will be better.
I feel like giving up too!! Many moms also dont do bf... why must I be so hard on myself! mother in law by then know i am angry... she spoke to me and I told her.. I am angry... supply not coming and the question you say makes me more fan. Guess what... hahah she took it! now she dont dare ask.
But well comes to baby something is never ending... now ask me to cut baby nails... so he can learn to SUCK his FIST! WTF..... I thot... for???
Just becos you ppl thinks is cute... I got to cultivate baby to have such habits? Her reply was... olden times ppl's baby also loves to such fist. I am against it i told her... germs? and let him suck and dont kick the habit off? I got to teach the kid...
My poor boy, living in the 20th century and yet... he got to behave like the 60's!! So yar.. having mother in law to help is not easy. I kno... but come to think, without her at night i cant pump and sleep too.. JY hang in there. I'm left with 9 days of confinement. Hope my baby faster past the night feeding and crying stage... and sleeps longer at night. I will get him to sleep with me then.
BTW is our baby... if thing have to turn ugly.. i told hubby... i dont mean to but for my son I will do anything! REm we are the mom!!
Mine's a lazy drinker!! Always falls asleep at my breast, later wake up then cry not enough. Now he is asleep I will pump out and latch on in another 1 hr milk cow.. That's me now !
Everyday I just hope milk comes more and baby can latch on better.. Drink better
Same here Kimyen... I am already counting down to confinement... 10 more days. Honestly i dont mind giving birth again.. but i mind confinement. I hate the food!! Hate the ginger hate being force to take those intestine stuff... damn sian.. Eat till I am so SICK!!
I agree with you. I dont't mind giving birth again, but to me food is ok. I hate the part where I cannot wash hair n touch tap water. Felt a bit handicap when I need to wash things. So end up everything I dont wash,just leave it on e table let CL wash. Hee.
But now think I won't want another one . 2 terrors is enough. Haha!
Yeah.. I used to shower twice a day.. can go out.. and all.. now I am so stuck. Today dont kno what to do for tml. mother in law is so into helping me... good and bad.. she takes care at night and day time she rather have baby sleep in her room still. So let her be . As for me.. I really not doing anything, cant go out, dont like the confinement food, no coke and cool drinks for me. I wanna drink fresh milk also cannot... is only my first child.. and I am really very scare. I am pretty active in shopping.. now hm bound is like killing me... So sian... Really dont kno what to do.. eat also ppl serve... baby say sleep with me in the day also dont want.. sigh... I am so damn bored!
Wah I envy you . I want to rest this much also cannot. Have to pack my elder baby stuffs, tk care of his needs etc. Only feeding n bathing I let my mother in law do. Then I also have so many things to sort out at home. Eg, keep my hubby laundry after washing, tidy up room n ensure sufficient necessities for baby.. If I rest halfway, realized I forgot to do something will quickly jump up n do. I also have to plan for my baby shower, food, decor, invitation etc. Also I'm shifting around Oct to my new home, do must check out furnitures n appliances n also design concepts. So busy. Lucky no need to meddle with work at all, else I can go crazy. Haha!
Haha, been busy also. If not tending to the younger one, have to entertain the older girl ...:/
doesn't help that when one cries, the other Is affected by the crying!!...
If you guys r bored at home... Can't take baby out for a stroll arnd neighbourhood ? I bring #2 for grocery shopping at amb hub, furthest she went was shopping at orchard so far..
Once everyone not under strict confinement , we'll plan for a meet up
Eh, btw got facebook? I wanna c babys' photos
I'm actually missing my job, but really no idea how to go back when there's 2 imps to handle at home.....they will drive grandparents nuts!!
Hahaha Engel, Can I say i miss wearing pretty clothes go Shopping!! or go out door.. watever.. just get out of this place in my PJ and ahsoh clothes all day..!!
Last edited by jovin83; 07-09-2011 at 01:49 PM.
Actually better dont cut their nails till they are 1 month old ..so small n tiny, can cut meh..moreover cut nails..Jovin, you left with 9 days ..i left with 2 weeks, so sian,mon just bring my 2 weeks baby to see pediatrician coz her eyes got infection( yellow discharge)..at first mother in law say :' Ai ya, baby is like that 1 , not infection ..its common 1, no need see doc..' the next day her eyes got worst then i told my mother in law, i MUST bring her to see doc, its EYE, not skin, better dont play play ..My poor girl 2 weeks old need to bring her see doc..
I agree with that. WE ARE THE MOM...all mummies, those sometimes mother in law is alike, but we are the 1 who give life to our little ones, so sometimes if we need to press on we should continue to press on..