This is a discussion on EDD in Dec 2011 within the Year 2011 and earlier Mummy forum, part of the Mummy Meeting Place category; Originally Posted by hibernate that time for my wedding, my husband's friend came from msia to be xiong di, brought ...
But usually from what I know of xiong di and jie meis, they usually help the wedding couple. like help in the drinking (when yam-seng that time, if groom cannot take it, they'll help take over etc)
true, later CL n your mom get in clash then you head more big. catering also many package , some is 5days then weekend you gt to settle yourself n some is 28days one. me think catering is more convenience but onli dont know we will like the foods or not.
so when want buy bird nest i will ask many qns to see hw the SA ans. but me also lazy to double boil so i will go dragon brands buy ready boil one.
hahah you know those older folks, some of them dont't like strangers sniffing around in the kitchen, their territory. Even when I cook, my mom is like hanging around me like that. in the end I just let her cook. haha
older folks is like that one. my mum also dont like me in her kitchen. chinese say one mountain cannt have 2 tigresssss. so you have to decide which you want, if not your confinement really jialet .
But I remember my sister In law wedding, the xiong this and jie meis never give. Maybe it's m'sian customs?
hahah luckily my relatives quite ok, or else I really spit fire. you'll see me supervising the buffet table only. hahahahah
i will not supervising the buffet table and chose to go into the house n pretend dont know. dont want to affect my mood for that day. hehe...