This is a discussion on EDD in Dec 2011 within the Year 2011 and earlier Mummy forum, part of the Mummy Meeting Place category; Originally Posted by Xmm dont't think parent in law mind if the grandkids carry their surname or not, as long as they ...
my hub is #2. he got one elder bro and younger bro. and i'm the youngest in this house. his younger bro also called me name. not to mention during wedding they never serve us tea also. i also called his elder bro name too. but at least their kids will address me so should be okay.
Yah, I will try to cheer up and forget about the 偏心parent in law and the self centred sister In law!
Missesjoanna- think you dont so fast gv cos first month stil easy to pat them sell only 2nd month onward you will need it. Me also gt one free from pigeon. just standby.
your husband also dote on his little sis , what to do .. you cant stop him from doing that too .. but if he's doing too much for her then maybe just tell him to limit a bit .. she's an adult already, 做妈妈 already .. still want to act baby? tell your husband he has to let her grow up
yeah! cheer up!! come in here often and chat with us keke... anything just voice out here!!! you're not alone okay!!!
in-laws dont care for you you still have your parents! so cheer up!
"only his bro come cos she need to look after nephew scare too noisy etc. " >> excuses! dont give face one ..
yeah Xmm, at least you have your parents! my parents dont dote on me also .. i only have myself to turn to
but i know how's it like to be totally neglected .. so i must try very hard ..
dont't compare, no matter what we are not their daughters also. If they want to spoil their daughter, there's nothing we can do. Sometimes my in laws just diam diam and be scared when their own daughters start to show those da crazy jie, I just keep quiet and file it one side under ; things I will not let my dear daughter do or teach my dear daughter to be.
Sometimes I feel that they dont't respect us because they just make whatever decision they want with the family and expect us to just follow. But can't be bothered. What's the use, no use getting into arguments just make me have a bad day only.
They asked us to get confinement lady.
When sister In law preggy, mother in law got her confinement lady and they even go and helped out!
Actually I got no expectations from them also, just hope that they dont't upset me can ........
I know I not their daughter so no place in their heart, and can't compare!
Me also going to have 2, I will try hard not to be too bias in front of them.