This is a discussion on Edd, Feb 2011. within the Year 2011 and earlier Mummy forum, part of the Mummy Meeting Place category; Originally Posted by Moon kok I did told her that when we bought it together. She even can tell me ...
Few days ago my aunt just said, "不要去做工你要怎么顾。她怎么难顾，是我我都不要顾。"
Wah, i was so pissed off .
In the first place, she used to say this to me, "拿五百块来啦！你拿五百块来，我跟你顾。"
Say until like other than her, i got no one else to help me look after liddat.
Then now come & talk shit with me.
In the first place i didn't even tell her i want her to look after for me . Now talk until like she want to 吊起来卖 liddat.
Every time my girl cry abit only i go make milk , then go tell my girl "你mummy每次这样的,等你哭这么久了才去泡奶。"
So frustrating !
I also cannot say her . She damn sensitive one.
Sometimes i never say her she also thought i say her, then keep arguing with me.
Wah jheyy... Y she cry non stop??? Literally no pause break?? So scary.. My baby cry most 2-3 hours when he frm newbrn to 2mth + but now ok .. dont cry so much...
My mother in law is a sensitive person too.. So i also cannt anyhw say.. have to control myself n b patient n kp quiet...
I can relate to some and not to some. I'm doing laundry and washing and sterilizing on my own even during confinement. Somehow my body used to it . My husband say we are a family open and close one eye. I dont't have the financial means, perhaps you can consider a nanny or part time cleaner or maid. Sometimes using $ can sOlve prob.
Your mother in law a bit weird ? Why she doesn't want to take care of her own children? I think since she has no experience whatsoever in taking care of babies, you can just ignore what she says. Its just too bad that you are staying with her.
Actually my hubby wanted to hire part-time nanny, but my aunts kept telling us not to waste the money.
If want to hire nanny, might as well give them the money & they help me do confinement.
Then the worst came.
Just 2 days before i gave birth, they tell me they dont't know how to cook confinement meals.
End up my confinement meals all anyhow cook, anyhow eat.
Then one always run go play mahjong, another one tell me dont't know how to look after baby cos last time my grandma help her look after one.
Sigh, my hubby & i was so angry.
In the end i have to eat anything that my aunt cooked, & yet still got to take care baby myself.
Somemore i c-sect, getting out of bed is already a problem.
Now i always here pain, there pain
So i always hide in e room wit my baby n furthermre i bf baby so easier to stay in e rm wit baby... But she told my hubby, that i am lazy , dont want to do housewrk, dont know do what wit baby in e rm always.... I feel very frustrated....
Cox my mother in law is very easy going and open minded person. So, is more easy for me to communicate with her. At least I'm less worry when I'm working. By the way, I'm already back to work on Mid of April, last few days was on leave cox mother in law go genting..
You mother in law really very stubborn and scary !! Noodle or maggie mee??!! How the baby swollen with no teeth?? Haiyo, you better dont leave your baby alone. If can, send her to infant care when you back to work.
Last edited by Moon kok; 22-05-2011 at 05:56 PM.
Walau!! your aunt is kind of very irritated person ! Normally I will answer this kind of person, 'you might have better exp than me..But I knw my gal well than you! And your way of looking after baby might not suit for my baby too. Anyway, thanks for your 'KIND' offer...'