Most mums will fall into depression, esp if you have to be seperated from your flesh and blood. Please take care.
If i were you, i will insist that baby stays here. COS SHE IS MY BABY!! Get your parent in law to go back themselves and get a confinement lady if need be. Otherwise, there are mummies in this forum who does the confinement themselves ( I know its hard).
Can you talk to your mum or other relatives to help? At least during this 1 month.
If your baby is in msia, then, how do you bf her?
I think you cannot help your husband worry about his work, you and baby are more important now! Insist on your rights.
Meanwhile, I hope something good will work out for you and your baby. God Bless.