This is a discussion on EDD May 2011 within the Year 2011 and earlier Mummy forum, part of the Mummy Meeting Place category; Originally Posted by kikilow You mean the ring? Only pigeon ring cannot, will leak. The rest I all interchange also ...
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Hahaha.. Ya I look soo haggard during those nights of fragment sleeps.. Tts y mums are the greatest in the whole world.. Willing to sacrifice for our lil one
So happy to see her sleeping soundly. I want to work but I want my girl to be in good caring hands too...of family members. mother in law or mom will definitely not ill treat your baby.
I'm also fed up with father in law, tell him d still do the same thing. Told him dont't teach my girl "bu Lu bu Lu bu Lu" she will end up learning nonsense right playing with tongue and salivating more. Had asked him to TALK to her properly as in human language. Still do the same thing. Sometimes even "hmmm" "hmmm" "errr" "errr" "and calling her " joo joo". When I ask him why he call her joo joo he said is malay for grandbaby. Come on I'm from Malaysia I know malay it should be pronounced as cucu which reads "choo choo" not joo joo. Non sense absolutely idiotic. Even you speak hokkien I won't mind but you r no where human language. Faintz.
Told him already. Even tell him is cucu in front of hubby.
He even so kiasi and say where got "I where got saliva" he thought I blame him for bu Lu bu Lu saliva on baby's face. I have to explain to him if baby learn bu Lu bu Lu will be playing with her mouth and she will be playing with her saliva.
They are smokers so I will be more particular when they come home must wash hand before playing with baby. There was a day when he came home and seated beside to play with her. I ask him if hd came back from outside wash his hand before playing again so kiasi telling me "I never touch her". I was like if I walk away and baby cry need pat or carry , will you touch her or let her cry? Just in case right? Who know men go toilet never wash hand or touch money , cigarette and other sorts of germs from outside.
So defensive....scared people blame him.
There was even once very funny during confinement , I know my sweat when latch causes baby got heat rash on face. He kept asking why like that red red. I told him Must be "you father and son " smoke already never wash hand touch her face. lol then he say he all the while never touch face one then he go and scold his son. Laugh my ass out.
Kikilow, old folks always think must have many then is good . My mother in law always come to my room sure ask baby drink milk oredi , why mama not giving you milk etc ..
then ask how much she drink now , got 5 oz or not bla bla bla
i said she is little drinker not yet reach such level..then when she saw me feed her only 2 oz, she said , how come so little milk for her ..
As if i will starve my baby like tht..
Isy, understand your feeling, my mother in law also smoker, she always said she wash hand , wash mouth.. but she smoke inside her room with tht clothes on, some more is air cond room.. all the caffein stick on her clothes oredi.. she still kiss my baby hand, then my baby later will lick her hands....
Not tht i particular with all this small matters, but i am very skeptical with smoker. She some more smoke in front of me, isn't she know tht second hand smoker can die faster? She also always ask my baby say "ang gu gu" sigh..
just wanna vent out also ..
Anyway, once i go back to work, i no eye to see what she is doing oredi .. if anything happen to my baby .. then i will voice out.
My girl 1st month indeed drinking 50-60ml per feed every 2hrs.
Today since 12 I feed her 70ml until 4:30 she still doesn't wanna drink. Manage to feed her another 40ml only. Then LAN LAN latch her.
Where got baby here so stubborn can tahan 4.5 hours. (she slept 2hrs though). Same like your girl that day huh only 120ml till evening.
By the way I think your mother in law doesn't know how to take care infants at all. I can guarantee all nanny and caregivers other than occasional Ang Gu Gu they will talk to baby and tease baby. Not talking baby language. Ever see nanny talk whole day with baby ang gu gu or uu uu aa aa? No right?
your hubby must be brought up by granny or maid and not by your mother in law ? Wild guess but intuition tell me I am right.
Hope your maid can ease your worries.
my gal can drink up to 110ml now, may be is 3rd month grow spurt..same, at night i will latch her to sleep to top up more on daily in take, she just dont't want to take bottle but want to suck my breast..
Bingo, my husband was took care by his elder sis( their age gap is 20+ years)when he was baby.. till primary school still under his sis guidance..
Anyway, mother in law is just to make sure maid won't do any crazy things to baby..
and she will not stay at home always for long, as she likes to play mahjong with her kaki.., i will see how.. sigh..
Yes, always worried baby food and their lifestyle till 2 years old? people said terrific 2, but my friend told me is terrible 2 , they will be very naughty and can spoil anything at home by then hehee..