This is a discussion on EDD in Sept 2011 within the Year 2011 and earlier Mummy forum, part of the Mummy Meeting Place category; Originally Posted by charlottetan hmmmm... no i will not take it so early.... yes... recently... getting more n more tired... ...
i have asthma, i cant take mrt to work, i will get breathless easily. therefore i need to wake up 5.30am with my hubby in order for him to send me to my mother house before he go work. cause at my mother house there got direct shuttle bus to dhouby ghaut. and its $4 per trip. i feel so expensive .
First need to wake up early, secondly is so expensive. =(
will take time to clean up the room for baby and pack the stuff properly and hope she will like her room.. we painted green as we didnt know will have gal or boy haha green netural...
think i will keep myself very busy....
chocolate melts? sounds nice.. feel like trying it during lunch!'
there goes my weight watching lol.... sigh... what the gyne will say to me this time round....
yes i think is the frog innates.... i will eat like once a week.... cos mother in law say... carrying girl must take those tonic so that baby girl skin will b nicenice... dont know how true it is. lols
hi to all mummies here.. i'm new here.. jux wondering if anyone actually experience depression throughout their whole pregnancy..
i cry myself to sleep every now and then. dont know how to cope even till now..
Then one night, i cried again. but i tell my hubby how i feel and what is in my mind. then we talk things out. He must give me attention, show me more care and concern so i wont think too much during my spare time.
You must see what is your problem and where/ who is the key point then from there, talk and solve the problem. must smile and have a cheerful mood so baby come out also will be cheerful too. cause if you sad, baby can feel it also.
my hubby got a job in a club not long after we got married to deal with the extra expenses of my pregnancy, n i dont even get to see him for more then 4hrs a day. -.-" and during wkends when we're suppose to have more time together, he'll sleep till e late aftnoon and most of the time he'll start playing his psp or watch shows online after he wakes up.. zzz and when i finally start a conversation with him, he'll start to tok bout work, bout e gals there n his fellow bartenders.. n recently he jux told mi that other then wrk he doesn't know what to tok to mi about.. it make mi feel lik his burden, even thou i know he doesn't think that way and thou i know he does care alot but it's jux that knowing and feeling is different. T.T
for your case... yes, mayb cos of the suffering you went thru plushe has got no time for you n that you got no one to turn too.. you will feel depressed... mayb its really your problem... but dont blame yourself... cos i m also like that... mayb joining this forum is the start for you to feel better=) cos here you meet alot of mummies friends ... there is someone to talk to to voice your problems n unhappiness here... you receive encouragement from this forum... n mayb you will feel less depress... I hope you feel better after voicing out your unhappiness n we are here for you=D
But never treat yourself a burden. cause i always tell myself. if one day he dont want me, i still have my baby with me forever. your mind set must be strong! talk to your parents, they will give you support. cause everytime i go home, my daddy and mummy will always ask did they bully you? did they ask you to do this and that? If yes, tell them. My dad says if anything happen i can always go back to my house. i still have the key and im always welcome back.
tried talkin to him bout baby, but he always stray back to talk bout his wrk. when i tried doin some planning for baby with him, he'll tell mi you decide lorx.. it's only when i flare up that he'll try to suggest something.
i guess i jux got too emotionally dependent on him. =/The " you decide " and the "talk about his work" sama sama like my hubby... For what i know is... i think they are too tired about work n need someone to release their unhappiness at work... thats y he talk to you about work when you talk about baby and when you ask him to decide something he will ask you back instead... I used to flare at hm when he do that too often.. but now... I start to put myself in his shoes... sometime i just keep quiet when he talk... when he finish his complaint at work he will listen to me.... well... mayb when you baby arrived ... he will b different? some of the daddies are like this... think positively?=)
hope that things will change when baby arrived..
my hubby is lucky too cox my mom's a good cook.. LOL~you see! you are more lucky than me. you are staying with ya parents. so dont depress. talk to them and relax yourself. dont keep thinking too much. everything wll be fine. my hubby is also like this. cause financial and everything i decide. he just need to work and dont need to worries about other things.
he doesn't worry bout anything, i take care of his everything. =x he doesn't even have to worry about baby's medical bill cox i wrk and save up for it. >.<