This is a discussion on EDD (September 2009) within the Year 2011 and earlier Mummy forum, part of the Mummy Meeting Place category; im experiencing pain at the lower abdomen and down there...cun walk or stand for long...sometimes cun bare the pain..anyone experiencing ...
im experiencing pain at the lower abdomen and down there...cun walk or stand for long...sometimes cun bare the pain..anyone experiencing this too?
I have been feeling tired since 2 mths ago..
I always sleep at certain timing and wake up early.
Sometimes will feel very tight at the belly area. I think all these are common during third trimester. Maybe we can let our gynae know about it.
im feeling very down...throughout my pregnancy, i've already changed 3 maids..1st was too lazy...day time she slept while doter was wide awake (i got camera at hm to monitor them)..she mentioned that she wants to go home in june but i send her back in april..took new maid..tis time was experience maid..her household chores is splendid but she got attitude prob and very rude..plus she doesnt seems to like taking care of kids..there are some other issue n finally i sent her back to agent after almost 3 mths...now got a new maid n she's soo damn dumb...general housework i would give 0 out of to..plus no common sense...im only about 1 -1.5 mths away before i gave birth...im very depress now...im physically and mentally drained to train this maid....
i cried to sleep...feeling very moody and feel like crying at any time...im not looking forward to labour and dnt feel like going hm each day...only go hm for the sake of my doter...currently i have to put both in my aunt's place so that her maid can monitor my doter as well as teach the maid..i cun take leave forever to train this maid..
i dont knw what to do anymore...cun tink straight...i cun imagine staying at hm during maternity with this dumb maid...changing maid again doesnt solve the prob either as im afraid choosing the wrg 1...im so damn depress...
sorry for long writeup..just wanna vent my anger and depressive mood..
we get them is to help us lessen the burden, but in turn, they are causing more problems. Esp when they have no common sense and dont knw hw to do work. teaching is no problem, but are they willing to learn or not.
some of them just act blur or act slow on learning. And you r only 1 - 1.5mths before you going deliver.
Is it possible to get this maid out first and after your confinement, than you go get a new one?
during your confinement, you get a confinement lady to help you first. As what i knw, some lady actually help to do house work too.
By the way, hw old is your doter? guess she is the one that you need someone to take care right? your aunt able to help during confinement?
im now looking for confinement lady as a backup plan...deep in my heart tis maid is not gg to make it as she got no common sense...slow can still teach but no common sense hw to teach?? i want to send her back but the one preventing me frm doing so is my aunt n mum..they said she just need time but hw long does she need?? sigh...real heachade..
my doter is 3 yrs old...and yes i need someone to assist me in cooking, housework n looking after my doter..
my aunt n mum are working..so cun help..
i really regret taking this maid...hw i wish i cn turn back the time...all these maid issues have been driving me crazy...
whether or not your maid can be teached, a confinement lady can actually help to lessen your burden.
you also have no choice but to have a maid becos of your doter. So since mum and aunt say can teach, than keep her until you finish your confinement.
if after that still the same, than send her back.
Of cos there is no way to turn back the time, but we can always look forward to settle it in another way.
dont feel depress, i knw being at this stage, we are more unbalance with our emotion. cry when you feel like it, so that you won't feel worst.