nope my mother in law or mom will not do such thing. if they do. i will scold them irregardless if they are my elders! how can they just bring my kid away from me without informing me. they are wrong. i will not allow and will be very pissed and most probably i will punish them but not letting them see the grandchildren for a period of time i know this is evil but they must understand that we are the parents and will get worried should anything wrong happen.