This is a discussion on 10k Postsssssssss---------------lets Make It Happen - Noc Gang April Thread within the Mummy Cafe forum, part of the Community Lounge category; Originally Posted by autumn82 Ya!! Same same~~ I was telling Ian, planning to give Belle $2, he asked me, "you ...
n lappy too????
then run off to find my parents.
n i also dont tc of pin the whole day, is the sch teachers!
so what?? she still listen to me when she have to. but in sch she is more guai n listen to teacher rather than me!
cos i wanna leave pin's fringe long, then need to clip up arbo poke her eyes but pin like to remove, then my mum can even tell me: you tell the teachers to put for her she sure put on cos she listens to the teachers alot.
Do not argue with an idiot. He will drag you down to his level and beat you with experience.
BTW, they dont understand the meaning of 'scold'.
My husband & maid tell my boy firmly not to throw his toys, he run to me and say "mummy, daddy & auntie scold me"!
to say this , is manipulating the parents nia. this kind of behaviour i dont't tolerate. i will smack one. she does it to my mother in law. then my mother in law will angry coz love her so much then come back rebel like this.
so dont't feel that you neglect him.. you've done everything for him.. and this is to ensure he grow up to be a good man with good morale and principles. why feel guilty?
i def. won't feel guilty.
tell you horrr i was so moody that day at your friend's place, coz your friend's house was my last "station" after all the morning sessions lOlzzzz
i was at yellowpudding's place with my electrician, he said that to me LOorrrrrr
he said i m not the one taking care of Baber, so he doesnt listen to me
makes me feel so baddd leehhhhhhhhhhh
dont listen to the ignorant~~~
we r all working to give our kids a better life n childhood.
perhaps a childhood we didnt have n want them to have it..
who has the rights to say all this rubbish?
then he have kids?? his kids must be never listen to him, thus he pass such ignorant remarks.
if ppl say that to me... i sure *&^^$#^$#^%#^$^.
i dont know but i thought i did not spent enough time with him
so he feels neglected
someMore in school every1 has siblings, he is the only boy in class that doesnt have siblingssss
i dont know but seeing uncle nic spanking him everytime like so cham, if i do that i dddink he will be so poorthingy also lehhhh like nobody sayang him
BUT horrr uncle nic always say no one loves him, wanna chase him outta the house
i thought it was bad for kids...........*shakes head*
crazy one. Baber is just playful -> ALL BOYS ARE PLAYFUL!
& I show you that he can actually behave IF HE WANTS TO!
You really too nice to him, that's why he knows he can bully you.
Even good guys can get angry at times. You must show him that you can get angry if he misbehaves, but if he behaves, you'll not scold him at all.
I'm trying to get husband to be the nice guy sometimes so my boy wont be so scared of him also.
Empty vessels make the most noise
ok lahs, i also sometimes will tell pin: you so naughty, dont love you, you go find gong gong.
but i say i love you to her like everyday n like more than 10 times a day....
unless she really very dixiao.
but i do agree, its not healthy for the kids, cos what if baber really think uncle nic dont love him huh???
erm.. no .. shldn't say those things.. but i think sometimes must spank.. afterall, we also kena spank before.. and we grow up better..
the new generation of kids very lucky.. parents can afford to give them alot of material goods.. but can parents afford to give them good morale values is another story ..
the electrician looks old, but he said he got a kid 1 year plus, and a baby
if this is happens every weekend, do some family activities . will help bond the whole family..
he is too fierce to be a nice guy lOlzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
we does family activities together, but it will always end up with quarrels like that
BUT something berri odd, no matter how bad both of them fall out, quarrels, spanking etc, Baber will still hug his daddy to sleep, he says he wanna hug his daddy lehhhh i dunnn understand why lehhhhh
its okay.. they just wanna assure themselves we spank/scold them .. still love them. after spanking and scolding, the routine must continue on.. like putting them to bed... hug them.. say good night..say i love you..
n i dont see any of their mummies preggers either.
sigh~ really not easy to be a parent.
now im tryin to say NO NO NO to pin.
arbo she'll keep thinking its OK to keep asking me to buy things for her.
but sometimes, you just REALLY wanna buy n make them happy!
there were times when he told me to shut my laptop and go in and sleep with him
past 2 weeks i was berri busy, i ddinnn have bedtime talks with baber regarding his school, maybe tatsss why he became so naughty
maybe tonite i try walking home with him, see if we can talk more