This is a discussion on 10k Postsssssssss---------------lets Make It Happen - Noc Gang April Thread within the Mummy Cafe forum, part of the Community Lounge category; Originally Posted by jaspzz hmm for my son if i say no....he will never whine...If he whine...I show him the ...
Alamakk, heavy rain again
some ppl lik to comment. my aunt too. she loves to comments but she mean no harm. lik that day my cousin came my place, then she knew and she said things lik "compare these 2 kids, urs lik more active, her son very quiet, lik very slow" if not say ash more naughty, or said my cousin's son's legs very short etc..
HAHA!!!! xiao da ren!!!!!! lil adult!!!!!
Shhhh.. baObei.. dont let Ian know. LOL. Wahahahahaah
Actually, I'm psychoing Ian now to keep long hair. LOL. And yes, he is doing soo too.. And I love pulling his hair
And I trained the kids to pull daddy's hair ONLY!
orleng dearie! now very funny, cos we have been cabbin to her sch for a long time already.
there was once she told the uncle, (brokenly cos she dont know how to direct him in full): uncle, turn at hong lim park there, then go OCC (ocbc building) carpark. my sch is there.
wahahahahahah, uncle laugh til pengz.
i also BTHssss.
uncle still can joke with her, when he turn n pass by hong lim still ask her, isit this hong lim park?
reach the carpark n ask her, isit turn here?
ting babe, ya.. as if their Please very big sometimes. If i'm in a bad mood, I will reply Belle, and so? then she LL.
omg raining like super heavily..
how i go for lunch~~
Hohoho! Me going to nap first.... Later got tuition
Actually, teaching own kids is not easy. They can always refuse to listen.... Is she in P5 this year? Still got time to catch up but she herself also must be willing to put in effort-a lot of effort and hard work, & not from mommy alone. I think for this one, you'll need to spend time to really talk to her about and let her understand why mommy is so anxious and that she must put her heart to it. dont't let her keep thinking she'll fail. It's defeatist attitude and if she continues to think liddat, it'll come true deee. Must also emphasize to her that if she wants something, she must work hard for it thru her own efforts. She needs to be and feel committed. I think Regine can understand this leeee.
Which year did her results deteriorate? I would suggest you start revision from that year. Draw up a timetable for yourself and her on the revision timeline for all the topics to be covered. Most importantly, agree on it. Since she likes to watch tv, then you can schedule it in but do let her know that if she spaces out while she's supposed to be revising, then tv time will be taken away. It's a consequence of her action.
On mommy's end, try not to scold her for every little mistake. We wanna build up her self-confidence. I know it's very difficult, I also scold my gal when she keeps doing the same error but when she kai qiao, wahhhh.... she feel so proud of herself. I told myself that I need to relax on this also, I am still working on it.
Jia you Queenbabe Mummy!!