This is a discussion on 10k Postsssssssss---------------lets Make It Happen - Noc Gang April Thread within the Mummy Cafe forum, part of the Community Lounge category; Originally Posted by lawla12 sign black n white got use arrr for my case????? what terms do you want me ...
Hey CCM bossie, tell him the $780 is based on his performance (I never read properly the whole story but I think the $780 is his salary is it? To work at UN's factory?)
Tell him start with $200 first. Performance based. 3 mths later become $400, then another 3 mths, $600. If performance no good, no raise.
1) his brain a bit damaged due to last time younger that time, like baby time, got high fever and damaged his brain, so he is a bit s-l-o-w in everything, dont know how his parents took care, but his mum remarried and divorced his dad, so actually their family life a bit complicated.
2) he got Form 5 (dunnn ask him how he got it) but he cannot write a single chinese character, cannot write a single english word, is like nebber go school before
3) nebber worked before in his whole life, whole day laze around at home
4) UN is helping him coz 2 years ago when UN's most beloved younger brother passed away that time, this rascal helped to carry the container during the funeral, normally this tradition is done by the deceased's son, but his bro was only 28 when he passed on, and Baber still young so cannot help, end up is this rascal completed the ceremony for UN's beloved bro, so there is this "gratitude" within him that says he must help this rascal out
its my money!!!!
coz i worked for him FREEEEEEEEEEE
Say give him $200 or less, then everything set rules and boundaries.. After all, must have two hands to clap.. uncle nic's wishes you also should hear about it first.. and tell him how you feel.. but if wanna continue angry all the way, everyone just gets hurt.
CCM, if I'm you, my T&C will be as follows:
Monthly ALLOWANCE (it's called allowance cos it's out of GOODWILL, scared he got no $$ to spend): $100, transport, lodging, food provided. He also not going out or paying for his food like poly students, so $100 for him to go out on weekend is very good already.
If he wants SALARY, then $30/day is not a problem. Probation period of 1 yr since he got no experience, can't even read documents. During probation, pay is $15/day. He still need to pay $300 for rental, utilities, internet. Top up $100 for food.
All is discounted pricing cos he is 'relative' afterall, dont say we bully him.
** Note: If he is going back to Msia every weekend, WHO IS PAYING FOR HIS BUS FARES? IT IS NOT INCLUDED! HE GOTTA USE HIS ALLOWANCE/SALARY FOR IT.
Houserules: Follow what the house mistress says. Cannot disagree cos this is not your house.
dont forget, as apprentice at factory, he is sure to make mistakes. Who is gonna pay for those mistakes?
This Friday & next Wednesday I'll be prepared to SUAN HIM.
Esp this Friday, got partner to suan with me!
Empty vessels make the most noise
Brain damage is just an excuse laaa.. Slow, still can teach. It all rounds down if the rascal is willing to learn.
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cancan bossie....so yst nite the "quiet" romantic evening with him alone turned out that he wanna tell you about that idiotic cousin's salary???????
pinky dearieeeee...if only THEY LISTEN!!!!!!!!!!!!
set rules also no use.....
like what i say, who doesn't wanna have peace at home??? who wanna mess up the relationship, evyday return home with an angry face.....they only expect cancan bossie to swallow evyting....they expect her to understand n accept evyting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
but who tink in cancan bossie's shoes??? NOBODY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sighzz...its really a BIG headache with idiotic inlaws!!!!! y r they like that....really axxhole !!!!!!!!!!
Then CCM, for staying at your house right, charge him $50 for rental. Also teach him to be responsible. $200, take $50 for rental, very reasonable worrr...
Then every month you automatically transfer to his mother's acct or remit over. If his parents did put in effort to bring Uncle Nic up, I think it's fair for him to give allowance. But must be an agreed amount and manageable amt.
Then special occasions (their birthday/CNY) then give abit more.
If my husband's parents did put in effort to bring him up and are nice to me, I would actually transfer a fixed amt to them every month straight. This was agreed before we got married. But since they wanna chu pattern, then let them continue to live in their own world lorz.
Empty vessels make the most noise
so pay him $150 for this month rite??????????? hahhahaha, he came on 24 April 2010 at 8:20pm lOlzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz