Good one Julee .
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Mommy, I am only 8 inches long, but I
have all my organs. I love the sound
of your voice. Every time I hear it, I
wave my arms and legs. The sound of
your heart beat is my favorite lullaby.
Mommy, today I learned how to suck my
thumb. If you could see me, you could
definitely tell that I am a baby. I'm
not big enough to survive outside my
home though. It is so nice and warm in
You know what Mommy, I'm a girl!! I
hope that makes you happy. I always
want you to be happy. I dont't like it
when you cry. You sound so sad. It
makes me sad too, and I cry with you
even though you can't hear me.
Mommy, my hair is starting to grow. It
is very short and fine, but I will
have a lot of it. I spend a lot of my
time exercising. I can turn my head
and curl my fingers and toes, and
stretch my arms and legs. I am
becoming quite good at it too.
You went to the doctor today. Mommy,
he lied to you. He said that I'm not a
baby. I am a baby Mommy, your baby. I
think and feel. Mommy, what's abortion?
I can hear that doctor again. I dont't
like him. He seems cold and heartless.
Something is intruding my home. The
doctor called it a needle. Mommy what
is it? It burns! Please make him stop!
I can't get away from it! Mommy!! HELP
Mommy, I am okay. I am in god's
arms. he is holding me. He told me
about abortion. Why didn't you want
Every Abortion Is Just . . .
One more heart that was stopped.
Two more eyes that will never see.
Two more hands that will never touch.
Two more legs that will never run.
One more mouth that will never speak.
Good one Julee .
Thot title is abortion .... you mean after 1mth, those r the 'result'? otherwise.
where got all organs n can hear sound?
suck my thumb?
girl!! can diagnosed during 3rd month?
...... till month 7 is the actual abortion right?
............. Bring tears..
see feel sad....
a sad but good one
that's very sad and cruel...
it's a sad thing... but @ least it bring awareness to those who wanted to abort...
touching.. a good one....
Just my say about the topic...
I believe, at the time of fertilization...LIFE BEGINS! I dont't wish to know the reasons of those irresponsible people (except for medical reasons) who decided to have an abortion. Reason such as "i am not ready" I still have my career to think of" and all those...I may say you are no less than a murderer. I'm sorry but I dont't support abortion at all. There are lots of couples who wanted to have a child & there you are given a very good blessing and the chance to let someone experience the miracle of life, yet you didn't treasure it. May the good Lord bless you!
Thanks for sharing!
Every Life deserves to live. Pls give these babies a chance to see the world in a better light.
so sad....mi also dont't support abortion...
It is so sad. I do not support abortions, there are many people trying hard to get a child but do not have one and these people just go for abortions if not for medical reason like the mum has poor health, etc, I think is selfish.
I'd rather people who feel that they're not ready yet , give birth and give up the baby up for adoption . There're people who want yet cant conceive .
This is the Hard Truth of Abortion...
This is a very gruesome video... Pls exit if you're not comfortable with the video clip... Rated: PG
actually I had an abortion when I broke off with my bf who ditch me for another woman. I really regreted doing that but I really can't do anything to keep it. Now it haunts me every night. I am thinking of settling up a tablet at a temple for it so it may have a home.I know this sounds really stupid and I never believe in such things but I really want to do this for my child at least.
Does anyone knows how and where to do this? Pls help me.
i am not sure if i replied too late coz i just happened to see yr query before i joined!
i am not a staunched buddist but based on what my dear husband's family member went thru during the seventh month i think i should be able to help you.
Buddist believed in reincarnation and karma. Hence the belief is that if a life is meant to live and it is taken away it is considered bad karma.
However i think whats done cannot be undone.
What you r thinking now is perfectly right for you to do. Do not think that it is something to atone for yr mistakes but it is the least that you can do.
Approach the temples, one example is the Shuang Lin Temple at Jalan Toa Payoh-PIE area. They do have a place to set a tablet for. Normally the prayers will only start in the month of seventh month and the month of the "Qing Min" and lasts for one month. Not sure about the price tho, think range from hundreds to thousand. If they are "full", let me know again. There are other places too that i know of and i can suggest some for you.
Set a tablet for your unborn baby. Give him/her a name. you will be required to give details like when it is conceived and when it passed away. The monks and sangha will be ready to guide you on what to do next.
In doing that you are helping him/her to be reborn to the next life soon after. Many people have done that before. So do not worry.
so every seventh month and qing min you will need to pay the tablet respects and perhaps buy some children clothings or toys like that. you can estimate how old it should have been by then.
Heart breaking...heard of such cases in the magazine. Guess due to genetic prob, they got to remove the baby, but this kind is not those normal abortion process, rather is a those labour process but some how the baby has already "sleep" thru.
hey hey, i m not superstitious, but personally if your hubby and you are fine with the arrangement, and this gives you a peace of mind, why not. Coz recently, my mother in law shared with me her story about her abortion too. As olden time, medical not advance, she went for medical checkup as she missed her period. But in the end after the doc did something to her, her period came. She was not told if she was preg and made abortion. Nth was told by the doc.
then a shifu came to my in laws place by chance, and saw a little boy roaming around. So instructed her to do some rituals and some offering so he can reborn.
Yeah i believe in reincarnation and karma....that defers if religion is different tho.