What can I say?
This is a discussion on Daddies, share your unpleasant experiences during National Service Here! within the Mummy Cafe forum, part of the Community Lounge category; Good Day fellow members! The reason why I posted this here instead of forums like HWZ is because this is ...
Good Day fellow members!
The reason why I posted this here instead of forums like HWZ is because this is a much friendlier forum where you won't get flamed for no rhyme or reason. This forum is introduced to me by my lovely wife!
Anyway, to start the ball rolling, I have ORD-ed several months back and am currenly working full time. Though these incidents happened long ago, I felt a need to voice out my grieviences.
After my Passing Out Parade (POP) I was posted to be a clerk at XYZ Company. The unit I was posted to had a nasty guy as a supervisor for NSFs. The main issue about him was that he's racist towards Chinese NSFs (I shall not mention his race here so as to not offend people of his race.). In his unit, almost 80% of the NSFs are of his race and he shows open favourism towards them. He enjoys belittling the Chinese NSFs and often insult us just to boost his ego (his lackeys will all support him and join in critisizing him).
A week before NDP, he pointed to a Chinese NSF and asked him to recite the National Pledge in Chinese. When the Chinese NSF said he didn't know there's a pledge in Chinese, the supervisor said there are pledges in the 4 official SG lauguages. When the Chinese NSF asked the supervisor how to say his pledge in his (the supervisor)language, he flared up and accused the Chinese NSF of bellitling his language by treating it like "a song for others to mock". WTH, he make fun of the Chinese language is acceptable is it?!
Anyway, this nasty supervisor likes to single me out at his debriefing sessions and will mock me to no end. He also likes to harp on the fact that I am a bad example to my daughter as I'm a X@#$ up worker (just because I dont't carry his balls). He also said cuz he's richer, he is much more suitable in taking care of my daughter. He's an MCP and hates the fact that I am not assertive towards my wife. He thinks I'm a coward by not being "the head of the house". Just because I live with my parents-in-law (I'm estrangled with my parents), he says I'm unfillial and that my daughter will abandon me in future. the last straw came when he said I'll be a Grandpa when I hit 40 (he's hinting that my daughter will be a teenage mom cuz I'm 23 when we had her and he looks down on me because of that). When I argue that my daughter will be well brought-up he said "Why would your daughter listen to a Dad like you?"
I requested for a transfer out of his unit at the Company's NSF dept. When my request got rejected (that idiot spread lies about me and the Head of NSF dept believed him) he mocked me and said that anyone who opposed him will have a miserable NS life.
In the end, mom-in-law brought me to her lawyer friend and wrote a STRONG letter of complaint to the Company's Commander who ordered my transfer to another unit.
On the final day in the scumbag's unit, he actually said "I realeased you from my unit cuz I see you small. I pity you." Can you imagine that? What a hypocrite and a egoistic jackass!
Well, all is over now that I've ORD-ed and am in the working world!
Anyone else have something unpleasant about NS to share? Mummies? Any gripe stories from your hubbies to share here?
What can I say?
yeah chill lorr.
alot of F up ppl in the army deee.
i think, you r just unlucky to kenna under such a supervisor.
is he an officer post or what??
btw, im not a daddy horr, hahaha, only listen to the stories from my bf.
Be glad it's over My husband had a nice encik in his unit, so he was quite 'protected'.
My husband also told me of bullying cases which some of them end up at IMH.
Anyway, it's over for you
But personally, if I'm you, I will lodge an official complaint regarding that guy.
It's illegal to be racist, & he is considered a civil servant, it's totally unacceptable.
Be objective in your complaint. Do gather a few ppl to back up your claims