This is a discussion on How many become housewife after pregnant/give birth? within the Mummy Cafe forum, part of the Community Lounge category; Originally Posted by lawla12 sad sadz....sayang Loves..... its true lohhh....those guys , tink we DESERVE to do all the household ...
Of coz if we r housewife we SHOULD b the one doing house chores but if i am wrking too then chores should b split but of coz dont need to b so calculative over who must do what~
i havent been really working since preg till now. sometimes get shit fr husband also. though i enjoy watching my boy grow up day by day, but really had enough of the shit my husband sometimes gives (esp when he's stressed at work).
that's y found a nanny. waiting to let her take care once her 2nd maid arrives. would rather work, earn my own income,... at least wont get so much shit fr husband. but a big sacrifice i had to make is my boy. cant grow up w him. feels guilty. like not responsible like that.
its ok darling no. 3, me also like that but , till now my boy ONLY looks for me when he is scared? wanna shit? thunder storm? hungry......
but that day he was asking me " Mummy, you look after me ....you quit yr job ..."
Last edited by raeka; 05-03-2009 at 09:29 AM.
My sis boy would like to see his mum work then staying at home. cause once she home she will ask them do work.
they only like her when bringing them out n chalet n birthday celebration..
Hope they will understand their mom .
i am 10 wks pregnant now and before this, already i not working.
but its so boring . i want to stay at home and grow with my kids but then im afraid when they grow up then i anything also dont know, cannot catch up with my children. Like they modern , but i become outdated.
my hubby never dare to "feedback" 'cos I've doing all the dirty housework including scrubbing the toilets. He only do laundry..easy job..just press btn n hang up.
but if anything they scared will still run to you ~
hahaha.... have to wait till he knows how to walk n run then i'll know.
me too! im also thinking nxt time if i have kids then be homemaker so i can take care of them, but i also scared i will be bored alone at home, or maybe so busy running after them that i got no time for myself to do my own things, then when they grow up they will think i dont't know anything...
thanks thanks! how come i doesn't know you post a reply?? wow~ that was so long ago:P