This is a discussion on LAST DAY OF MARCH ~~~~~~ NOC GANG Chit Chat Talk Crappssssssssssssssssssssssssssss within the Mummy Cafe forum, part of the Community Lounge category; i broke down.i cried in front of dante again.i'm really tired.my mom keep nag and nag about she dont want ...
i broke down.i cried in front of dante again.i'm really tired.my mom keep nag and nag about she dont want take care dante.i told her to tell my hubby cause he is e one that dont let me put him at infant care.my mom insist on talking to me.she keep tell me i was e one that bring dante over first,blah,blah,blah.i know she is getting old,no energy to take care of him.but what else i can do?i need to work,i too wish i can quit and stay at home take care of him.
Eh you all sign up your boys also must tell me what talents they have mah... right right...
keep bomb your hubby's hp! get him to come back asap to discuss this with you! ask him now your mum dont wanna take care dante and he dont want to send him to infant care, then what he wants?
ashton will blow saliva,
use his tongue to make sounds
catch ants (i'm training him to catch cockroaches)
shake his sexy buttie
say " dar" (so he can call laura DAR, darling dee DAR)
play peekaboo (so he can play with laura)
hmm so far i can think of these.. haha!!!
Damn fed up. My fave colleague today & tomolo MC. I gotta work with THAT WOMAN cos she's taking over his classes. YUCKS!
Somemore she just ask me for suggestions, then when I tell her what I normally do, she just replied "Aiya, whatever !"
Then ask me for what? Pissed off. What type of middle manager is she. Some more yesterday they made us attend the Spring Singapore talk on People Developer Award. KAHHHPUIII!! Sure can't get with this type of ppl in the management!
morn all....sianz sianzzz...
idiot boss ask me to see her in the morn for the annual report....zzzzzz...
ytd KW really pissed me off!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What KW do?
Morning all. Me at home again with Ethan... I really wish he dont't fall sick so often. Thankfully my boss is very understanding. She postpone all my meetings to next week.
*group hug for those who are having a bad morning*
princess dearie...i feel that your hubby is those kind of pple whom you need to FORCE him deeee...everytime when you discuss with him on impt issues, he will keep quiet, never comment much etc.....
he's listening but i tink he's thinking of a better solution...also, he knows you'r stress, he dont dare to anyhow tok in case he make you angry....
since you've discuss with him before n that he did not give you any feedback....then you just tell him straight about your solution (send dante to infant care)...let him know the charges so that financial wise, he can b mentally prepared......then ask him to tink.....he can continue to keep quiet...nvm....
then wait for a few days later....ask him what's his decision...if he continue to keep quiet, then you tell him you'll execute your plan baaaaaaa.....ASK HIM GET READY FOR THE INFANT CARE FEES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
if he say he dont want, then ask him what better solution he has....tell him that your mum is OUT.....your mum is old n tired...cant take care of dante.....if he insist on putting dante with your mum, then ask him to evy day go fetch him...let him have a taste of your mum's nagging....let him go through what you went through so that he understand how you felt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! rem you'r not pushing your responsibility away, but its to put him in your shoes since he cant understand how you felt n that your mum cant take care of dante.....
sayang sayang princess dearie......dont get too stress~ ......
I've already planned my leave in such a way that I take 3 days off a month to nurse Ethan back to health. This month is double whammy. I took 6 days coz he only lasted 2 weeks. This bout of sorethroat is I spread to him deee...
How about relatives like aunts? Maybe they ok to take care of Dante? Then can rotate with your mum?
Or how about you go part-time? Then get a part-time care taker or you can rotate with your mum part-time?
hi diy dearie~
ytd i met up with my sec sch buddies, one guy n girl.
the girl, my best friend, we did meet up for a few times, but seldom due to own commitments, n my guy friend, he was away in perth for pilot training so about 2 yrs never met already (ever since pin's 1st bday), so met up n have dinner n a drink.
so i was home abit late, already 12 plus. then KW say he will wait for me, but he fell aslp.
so i went to shower all those already 1 am like that. then i msg KW but he also nver reply.
then i assume he very very tired so sleeping liaos.
then suddenly he call me after 10-15mins.
then he sounded like he just had a jog, heavy breathing, so he tell me, sorry sorry i fell aslp while waiting for you..so i ask him, why you breathing so hard.
then he say: "oh cos D called me to bring JOEL TAN (the guy i HATE) up cos he was TOO DRUNK, n D had to send some girls home... but very fast, i only took less than one minute then i rush up to call you already!"
me: "so you mean you woke up cos they called you?"
KW:"yes. if they never call, then i wouldnt have woken n can call you."
me: "then how come when you wake up, the first thing isnt to check youe phone to see if i msg you but to rush down n help that MF (motherF**ker, ooops, but i really HATE HIM)."
KW: "sorry, but im just doing D a favour cos he need to do other things, (yeah, send some girls home to F them i suppose!!)
then i conted to scold him lahs. LOL~
but i was angry bcos, WHY MUST HE GO BRING that MF UP?
i told him many many times already, if they wanna drink n get drunk, then so be it, he can sleep on the streets or OUTSIDE , WHO CARES?
wanna drink yet cant be responsible n ALWAYS GET DRUNK. (this MF can get drunk like 5 times a week?!) then already 1 am plus still NOT PAISEH wake ppl up from sleeping just bcos he cant walk back??
n that stupid D, what is wrong with him? if only takes less than 1 min to go up, then WHY CANT HE BRING HIM UP FIRST.
i sibei angry lorr.
why must ALWAYS call KW when he is already sleeping n make him go down to fetch him?
he is his maid or mother?
i really very very very angry n scold KW til jialat jialat.
cos he already PROMISE me that if they call him due to rubbish reason (get drunk or no money pay cab), CANNOT HELP THEM n dont BOTHER, ESP WHEN HE IS sleeping!
but he still do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
everyday i will remind n tell him when he say THEY WENT OUT AGAIN.
wth lorr, this idiot. from he can get drunk ANYDAY. even on MONDAY!!?!? even if next day got class at 9 am they will go out or play til late then next morning expect KW to wake them up!!!!!!!!!!!
i tell KW, go tell that joel tan that if he do it ONE MORE TIME, i will go call his mother (joel tan) n tell her to ask him to TEACH HER SON SOME MANNERS!!!!!!!!!!
i tell KW im gg to CURSE HIM EVERYDAY TO FAIL ALL HIS MODULES THIS SEM N have TO COME BACK TO SG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! idiot!!!!!!!!!!!!!
this kinda ppl also under saf schlorship, but WASTE (taxpayer???) MONEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Do not argue with an idiot. He will drag you down to his level and beat you with experience.
- give her hugs,
- kisses her on the lips/cheeks,
- sayang her,
- hold her hands and take a stroll,
- teach her how to sing Lady Gaga's Bad Romance or Twinkle Twinkle Little Stars,
- shake his butt sexily for her,
- Hiphop, breaking, locking, floor dance for her, and
- Share food with her.
wah now think of it realy boiling inside!!!!!!!
CURSE HIM CURSE HIM CURSE HIM!!!!!
i really never ever hate or dislike anyone so much to the extend of cursing that person lorr!
cos of that idiot, me n KW argue alot of times already!! (ok lahs, or rather i scold him alot of times already)
i tell KW, if is sch work all those, they need help I M OK, I dont MIND.
but this kinda shit, why must he do?
they pay him mehs??? ONLY KNOW HOW TO MAKE USE OF HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hey Ting, can understand why you so angry coz that Joel Tan like taking KW for granted. Machiam treat him like his own mother. Is that Joel housemate as KW? Maybe KW want to help also coz he dont't want to make things so "nan kan" and can continue to live in peace under 1 roof. When he grad and come back to SG, get him to cut all ties with that Joel Tan. Abroad got a lot of these kinda people one. Never use brain. (I refering to Joel Tan)...
Xiao1 qi4 xiao1 qi4 (dont't angry)... dont't angry over these type of people.. Tahan a while more then when KW come back, I dont't think that Joel also dare to call him liaooo coz I think he knows that you dont't like him...
Good mOrn eVeryOne~~
This mOrn Iggy's down with slight fever.. Zzz.. Just gave him his medicine. *yawns*
Hope every child gets well real soon~~