This is a discussion on LAST DAY OF MARCH ~~~~~~ NOC GANG Chit Chat Talk Crappssssssssssssssssssssssssssss within the Mummy Cafe forum, part of the Community Lounge category; Originally Posted by Ting actually, i think many kids r like that. yup, maybe your mum really tired n cant ...
Lawla, that woman also starting to chu pattern with me. I damn sian also.
I've been thinking of quitting for very long already. My husband also support but I miss the kids, so till now, have not quit.
I think if your finances allow, you should quit, take a break to make some babies & find another job Sometimes once you quit & the stress is gone, you will get preggie. Like I concieved my boy when I was on unpaid leave (to prepare for wedding & go on honeymoon).
time to really take a step back and look at what you want in life already.
he dont see it tis way......he smtimes will tell me that if we tried out best n noting happen, then b it.....smtimes we just cant force tings yaaa...its ok w/o kids....
he dont agree taking a break from work for conceiving......to him, other woman who r PCOS can conceive when working....Y CANT I ~
bye byes i decide to take MRT there, save $$$ lOlzz
hmmmm but lala dearie, you both really want to have kids right??? i feel that every individual's body is different, cannot like that compare worr.n job scope is different? yours so stressful with idiots arnd.
he said "if you want to bring her back to Mt E, she wil get worst!" cos he said the psychiatrist prescribed the totally WRONG medi for me! he said all those medi is for adults, not a sec 1 girl should take. and is for depression, not for stress deee..that's y i took liaoo machiam 'side effect'..can you imagine, we my parents spent nearly 20K on that pte psychiatrist, thinking that prte dee is better, IMH deee not good? then he told my dad to give him 3 mths, he said he confirm within 3mths, i will back to normal, have confidence to go back to sch. after that he change all my medi to very mild one.. and really lehh, within 3 mths i got better with all the counselling, medications etc.. but i still see him until sec 3-4 i think, cos whenever exams come huh, OMG! i sibeh stress.. but when i around sec 4 mid yr, i bo chap liaoo. who knows, i bo chap in e end my results turned out to be quite good! so in ITE i all the way bo chap, all the way got As.. haha!
if not, i would have already downgrade liaooooo
moreover its not easy to take unpaid leave...have to go through our finance director n HR.....they will definitely ask me the reason.....if its preggie-related issue, they will most likely ask you to leave instead n say tis job is not suitable for you.......our coy is "mei you ren qin wei".......
they can do tis to SVP....i'm only an a/ctant....my life is even at a HIGHER risk~
Lawla, it's not about trying for baby only. It's also your mental health, take a break to relax and focus on what you want in life also. Go do some travelling with your GFs, spend some time with family, etc.
If not for me missing the kids so much, I would have just quit and go travelling with my bestie cos she now jobless, waiting to be taitai. hahaha.
I very pissed. the whole morning that woman shove all her work to me, I got no time to eat. No time to even peeeeeeeeeeee.
im sooo slpy now..
dozing off liaos.
your hubby supportive yaaa....mine =
Last edited by sunflowerlady; 25-03-2010 at 12:02 PM.
jialat...i forget everyone's name out of a sudden..........zzzz............
sher's mummy : must find someone sher willing to tok to dee...if not veri difficult for her mental health also....
Sian everytime I am home to TC of Ethan I dont't know what to eat for lunch...