This is a discussion on MummySG Night Owls Club within the Mummy Cafe forum, part of the Community Lounge category; Originally Posted by lawla12 dear husband was saying, tats y, there's some tootpig woman, thought can tie dear husband down with a ...
Actually ... it's all thanks to other tootpig women telling these even more tootpig women:Originally Posted by lawla12
1) men will change for the better once they get married
2) men will change for the better once they become father
What they fail to understand is this:
1) men MAY change for the better once these men themselves WANNA get married
2) men MAY change for the better once these men themselves WANNA become father
Sure it's not easy to stay rationale, but we all hafta try ...
This was what I said earlier: What's more, we are talking of no more than $5k ... since it's more or less an open secret that the husband has been keeping this mistress for the longest time.Originally Posted by lawla12
Yes, she will need evidence if she wants to effect an immediate divorce ... basically, she has to prove unreasonable behaviour, examples of which are abuse, assault & adultery.
For PIs, they work on a "you hire me at a fixed daily rate" basis ... something between $150 to $500 per day, depending on what equipments they have to produce what kind of evidence.
Like I said, if her husband already so openly keep a mistress, it is not difficult for an experienced PI to get sufficient useful evidence ... within 2-3 weeks, without really high-tech equipments. That's why I quoted "no more than $5k".
BTW, if her husband is such a bastard, then why you still type dear husband huh?
Isn't dear husband supposed to mean "darling hubby"?
Girl, no wonder you are an accountant/auditor ... becoz you really will never manipulatively massage the figures one ?Originally Posted by lawla12
You think HDB will teach her how to find loopholes in their own system to beat, even if she go check with them?
If you ask me, your buddy should be consulting a lawyer now ... on what it takes to file for divorce of the immediate kind. This lawyer should also be able to link her up with a good PI, who would already know what kind of evidence is good & desired.
Even after meeting the lawyer, she can still think the whole situation through before taking action ... in comparison, this would be professional advice & not just buddy-buddy indulgence of comfort.
IMHO, if you cannot leave your heart at home & only bring along your brains when meeting her ... then dont bother to meet, whether it's just you or along with another buddy.Originally Posted by lawla12
Hahahaha .. no dear husband anymore should be BH Bastard husband
Can afford to have mistress outside , y dont 1 2 divorce .. this stupid idiot guy ..
If for me , i sure cut of his d*** .. dont know y your friend can still tahan him for so many times ???? WO BU MING BAI .. WEN SHI JIAN QING WEI HE WU ......
Helloooooo!! Brought Josh for his jab earlier and also a small check up... He must know he is going to get jab last night cos he didn't really sleep and keep waking up!
His HepB jab?Originally Posted by JacquiLau
Just out of curiosity, since he's gonna be heading to UK or Oz eventually, are their vaccination schedules the same as ours?
Meaning to say, are you certain there isn't any other jabs he should be taking ... according to UK or Oz requirements?
Where got bully you?Originally Posted by lawla12
I was trying to make sure you dont end up wasting your tears.
Ok, I'm off ... bringing the boys out for jalan jalan.
Later tonite, still got night class ... so wun see you gals until late late tonite.
Your Iggy doesn't weigh 8kg yet?Originally Posted by autumn82
So, put it this way ... is it safe to put him in a 4.5kg stroller?
It's all simple physics ... sometimes, parents pay too much attention to their own convenience.
Looking @ Primary schs now.. Jialatz.. Panicz. LOL. :x
That's my point ... then all the more you need to upgrade to a stroller of angmo brand.Originally Posted by autumn82
The Chinese & Korean ones are perfectly ok for newborns upwards ... but when the child weighs 2 times (or more) the weight of the stroller, then it's no longer that safe.
Alternatively, you can always be THE stroller & piggy-back Iggy instead ... since you are soooo stable, weighing in at 200kg.Originally Posted by autumn82
Ok, I really hafta run ... if you have more questions, just PM me. Pages here really flash by faster than the toilet papers in the public toilets.
aut dearie...dont care about that daddy d....he NOTI NOTI !!!!
nvm..me help you~
****WHACK daddy d's butt with cactus*****
aut dearie...my flu bug VISIT me again......now my nose super blocked......and i'm very frustrated at work!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
feel like throwing MC!!!!!!!!!!!
Mine next yr K1.
you know something about PCF?
I got the homework from PCF cos' dear daughter cannot go sch this week... got colouring/phonics/chinese/alphabets.... then ask dear daughter where she gets the crayons in class. dear daughter says every day got 1 "leader" from each table of 5 kids.. in charge of taking crayons n collect/hand in the books. dear daughter very excited when her turn to be "leader". Sibei cute