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This is a discussion on NOC GANG - MAY crappy Talksssssssssssssssssssssssss within the Mummy Cafe forum, part of the Community Lounge category; Originally Posted by lawla12 i tink its cos most of the time i start to tok to him 1st....tats y ...
Lawla babe, I understand what you are gg through.....diff family have diff probs.....
Wait for the both of you to cool down first
Like what some mummies here said, dont't move back to your family's place....if you dont't feel like talking, then dont't talk for the moment, but when you both are ready to talk then sit down and have a good talk, let your woody knows how you really feels .....
We are always here for you babe, be strong ok?
To all the beautiful mummies, Happy Mother's Day.....
apollo dearie : i have not try .
1. Either your relationship is based on 大男人/小女人 since paktor time... thus very hard to make the 大男人 listen to your opinions/views.
2. Or the 大男人 thought you are his 小女人... but you are not... thus the wrong expection.
3. Or his family side is already problematic to being with... if they can't even solve their own problem... what more can you do to help? Thus your woody didn't want to elaborate...
4. Or you didn't know his family side is problematic to being with... thus your wrong expection.
5. Or you n woody does not communicate enough... thus taking both for granted... and wrongly expects the "You-should-know-since-we've-been-married-for-so-long"...
6. Or your woody doesn't know how to handle things... thus his family problem is spilling over to become your family problem...
Chill.... only time will tell...
Like you say... different people reacts differently...
so understand you and woody's personality...
from there you can anticipate woody's responses next time you approach the topic
just trust your instinct when you make your next decision
*Pokes head in*
Hi every1 long time no see...
I'm lawla husband, who are you to say my family when you only hear one-sided of the story. Is it right of you to do so? How true is her story? Do you know the actual facts of selling/renting the house? dont you think its fair to be a neutral ground rather than just shooting others family members down.
Do i know you? Do you wish to contact me to clarify on my mum pass away thing? Is that a curse to my mum? how much do you know about our matters or are you simply base on Lawla's posting to judge? How true is her posting? how responsible are you to make this kind of posting? So who is the one very guo fen? I seek an explanation on the mum pass away thing?
I hope all will refrain in scolding my family as I cant tolerate this anymore. Who are you all to make this kind of remarks to me and my family? Simply ask lawla, what really spark this argument, is it my younger sis moving in problem or me attending my aunt's wake problem. she state all the bad things about me and left out all the bad things about her in this posting. sometimes things shouldn't see part of it, you need to know the whole picture than start making remarks. If by saying, "If your family next time need help, no need to ask me cos I wont help" ("thats wats happening to me now) is a curse, than what apollo post, is it a curse? do my wife really 'yang' my mum? does my mum have the intention to have her daughter into our home? if need clarification, I'm ok with it and will bring my mum along for meet up if you all want. than i want all to apologise what all have said.
morning all.gonna go see doc later.breathing difficulties.plus chest still hurts.bringing dante over later too.he now sleep till super shiok.
morning ladies~~~~ OMG~~ i'm so excited. another few hours to know baby's gender.. hopefully baby guai guai open legs for mummy and daddy and jie jie to see..
perhaps the person, you really need to talk to isn't us.. and is lawla.. at least now you know how she thinks, and can understand her side of story better. while, you need to try to make her understand your side of the story.
what's said in the heat of anger.. could be very damaging to a r/s. try to remember why you two are together in this marriage in the first place..
Gooooood mooooooorning allllll..
Monday blues... Dragged feet to work today.