If I could turn back time, like to do the following:
1) insist a detail chromosome test for dear daughter
2) hold my late Dad's hand longer, talk a bit more before he passed away
3) wouldnt hold wedding in that lousy restaurant which has no proper changing room for bride ..... father in law 1st son held wedding there as well as other sons (about 15 - 20yrs ago) can you imagine how rundown that place was! you know I got to change my grown in a common toilet with 1 sis guarding the toilet door!! Even the dummy cake was the same one (saw the pic they took after I married) Wish I wasnt lazy that time. Thot it was good for ppl to plan/arrange while I shake legs.
4) dont re-reno house. It looks nice but workmanship n quality not there .... inferior stuff that looks nice/presentable for a short time. Imagine my toilet pipe burst within a month, the wooden laminated floor was a bit pop up when I moved in, my kitchen sink leaks in about half yr, etc. Dont ask me to complain to contractor cos I wont win .....
No 1, 3 & 4 were results of too chinCai, too 'easy-going', over-optimistic