This is a discussion on young malay mums, lets meet over here!! - 28 Feb 2010 and earlier posts ~~ within the Mummy Cafe forum, part of the Community Lounge category; enflor.. i guess we're in the same moOd now.. but for me.. i'm more of feeling regrets here n der..!!...
enflor.. i guess we're in the same moOd now.. but for me.. i'm more of feeling regrets here n der..!!
lis- yah we are feeling horrendous now. But i think, like what diana said, i am just too tired. For you pulak, apa hal ? tak baik regrets tau esp over si DIA. I think your case is tired and temporarily loneliness. I pulak, i desire for that temporary loneliness to overcome my fatigue. Give me a call, if you wish to talk ok. Maybe we can boost each other to feel better.
I am setting target time that by 3pm....my mood and attitude must change for the better coz tonight hubby flying out. Takkan nak monyok depan pintu to see him off kan.
BABEs, entertain me with all your gila2 post. I need my laughter jab.
lis - you regret amik order buat kek roll i ke ?
You may be deceived if you trust too much,but you will live in tormentif you dont't trust enough.(So trust your instincts for it will never lie)
mine is not loneliness.. but i yearn for my own space toO.. argh..!! feeling very tired.. to everything.. regrets.. coz i'm tired of compromising.. afta one another.. i'm feeling the HEAT of being treated..... *i dont know how to describe the feelings*..
taking order..? haha.. it's ok..
eh ina...kau ada tgk raja kuih nye ad kat tv tak?
featuring nenek kropok sey..kekek aku tgk...
tu suhaimi yusof nya kan. last2 dia yg beli kuih bukan dia jual kropok.
I like the cadbury choc adv jugak. Got two kids nanti dorangnya kening terangkat2. My doter nak buat tak boleh, last2 she used her fingers to pull and push her kening.
Gi JB? Tak seronok .. Baik gi batam for spa... Cheap!!! Nak???
!! Teringat aku pat kau bila ku tengok tu... haahahaaaaa
lis - if you can't change a person, change your ways in handling and interacting with the person. If you still can't do that, go for SILENCE for awhile, coz it allows your to do some reflection and introspection of the things that have happened.
I'll be doing just that when kids nap later.
ok, i need another cold shower to refresh this zonk out kepala otak. Lepas tu keluar buat specs. I dont't give a damn how much it will cost me.....HAHHHH!
sigh!! Thats man if they control us, to them memang patut but kalau kita yang control dorang, melenting ar dorang ni.. But then sometime they do this cos of one reason all that pasal dorang terlalu sayang sangat pat kita.. They scared we run away.. Hehehehehe... Macam laki aku ar sampai gaji aku smua dia pegang.. He won't let me keep cos he pikir i kalau ada duit ti i senang2 tinggal kan dia.. Monyet kan!! But then Lis, maybe you shud try talk it out nicely to him . Terlalu control pun tak bagus jugak seh..
My kids pun fabret cadbury choc adv too.. Kalau pat tv, masing2 will stand in front of the tv and watch it..
Enflor gonna get new specs.... but specs mmg costly... itu pasal i pki cermat2 nak elak patah.. but still cant help it lens still calar2 sbb malas nak use the cloth given to clean it... hehehe.... but contact lens is always the survivor for me if specs broken... standby... hehehe....
silence is onie ONE of the solutions.. if i keep silence for toO long.. i might just burst like volcano..!! n wen that happens.. it gonna b very BAD..!! but on the other hand, wen i try to talk tings thru.. or share my feelings.. it doesn't work.. or maybe it will work out onie for a few days.. then it'll start ol over again.. i pity my son.. coz he'll b my victim.. coz he can especially pissed me off toO w ol his antics..!! damn it..!
i just HUNG up the phone w husband.. he said wanna talk tings to thru.. have a heart to heart talk.. but wen i said my piece.. he'll have some disagreements w it..! so how now? am i the one who's not understanding or HIM..?!
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[quote=Mama Ina;224680]sigh!! Thats man if they control us, to them memang patut but kalau kita yang control dorang, melenting ar dorang ni.. But then sometime they do this cos of one reason all that pasal dorang terlalu sayang sangat pat kita.. They scared we run away.. Hehehehehe... Macam laki aku ar sampai gaji aku smua dia pegang.. He won't let me keep cos he pikir i kalau ada duit ti i senang2 tinggal kan dia.. Monyet kan!! But then Lis, maybe you shud try talk it out nicely to him . Terlalu control pun tak bagus jugak seh.. /quote]
btol ckap ko... my pay i handle it myself.... hubby cuma tanya je.. da msok so and so.... just for his own info.... hehehe....
Sorry i am not good in words.. For me kan, in marriage life we can't just blame one party je.. Not saying you may be at fault but then you may try to talk to him why he like this or that.. No one perfect tau.. In marriage also there will always be up & down nye.. Sumore we have to treat all this like a test.. Its common once a while there will be a communication breakdown, bebz.. Tapi no worry all that still can be save .. Kita nak kena banyak sabar and banyak berdoa to try to go tru all this.. Never give up easily k, dear.. Every problem there will always be a way out.. I've been suffering for 8years but after that alhamdulillah now je even though tak perfect ada jugak perubahannye.. Some people may can't tahan but then maybe you can get help from elderly like your Parent in Law??
Sorry ehk, if my words smua tak make sense to you.. This is what i feel .. Just ignore k if you tak terima.. Sorry..