This is a discussion on young malay mums, lets meet over here!! - 28 Feb 2010 and earlier posts ~~ within the Mummy Cafe forum, part of the Community Lounge category; Originally Posted by Mama Ina 5th Post !!! ni kompom tgh bz score game lahh niiii.... kk nanti aku beat ...
ok...i wanna ask you guys for opinions....
there's a couple...married for 1 yr 3 month...
the guy was bujang and the lady was janda 3 yrs older than the husband...
recently she refused to do any housework...be it cooking or cleaning the house or even wash a glass...senang cakap she dont even bother bout makan pakai husband dia lahh...
the husband gave her money to settle all the bills but she never did n use up all the money herself...she have this your-money-is my-money-and-my-money-is-still-my-money thingy in her head...
she even refused to visit her mother in law when her husband asked her along...
as for sex...when the husband ask for it she simply said " i da takde nafsu dgn you lahh..."
also found out that lately there is other man who always send or pick her up from work...
when the husband wait at the her work place front door she will sneak out thru the back door and vice versa....
FYI this is her second marriage....
MornIngs Sweety Mummies,
Being M.I.A 4for afew days....Bz weekeNd bt very Enjoyable....
Enflor-good Luck for your papeRs..
I dont mind having Steamboat bt then klau with kids around,susah sikit..Like seoul garden,ade tmpt very small...Klau nak garden party either bottle tree park or botanic garden...Klau nak potluck kt umah,i volunteer to do at my place....
hmm.. kisah nye sungguh menyedihkan bagi pihak sang suami.. but then.. afta ol that happened, the laki tk pernah marah or do aniting bout it ke...? or da kene 'nasi kangkang'..?? (sorie abit str8 forward here)..
need advices for the man ke the lady..?
as for the lady..
1. y did she marry the bujang in the first place..??
2. klau da tk suka or what, please leave the guy alone.. stop making use of the man and let the other ladies left w no choices of man..
3. did the guy do aniting wrong to her that made her react like that..?
as for the man..
1. knape kahwin ngan dia in the 1st place..?
2. what do you c in her that you seem like you didn't take any actions towards her behavior..??
3. ask her what she wants.. and talk what bout it.. jgn diamkn diri.. yang tanggung dosa bnyk2 nanti diri dia.. coz he's the husband..
best eh wknd.. tkpe2.. it's my turn to enjoy tiz coming wknd.. i nk pergi prawning n bbq lunch.. yippee..!! hehehe..
klau kite pergi makan steamboat.. tkmo ajak anak2 uh.. hehe.. klau ajak anak2.. make sure w tag our MAN along.. so they can help to loOk afta the kids.. hehe.. klau garden party.. that one i rase the MAN tak ikot pon tkmo.. coz easier to handle the kids..
my 1st precious.. 070907
my 2nd precious.. 240810
best Nye Lis,nk go prawning & bbq...Kat ane?
This weekend as usual ade andam lgi..wIll b bz for this whole 2 mnth with andam...Bt NO COmplaiN....heheheh...Luv it so Much....
YaLor,with run around ltr & kite Mummy pulak MCm TARZAn teRpeKIK2...MemaluKn....heheh...Why not WE SETTLE it with picniC or garden party?/
i will b prawning n bbq kat marina country club.. kt punggol sane..
goOd for you.. gi andam bnyk2.. nanti da pandai.. kite smuer boleh join venture.. hehe..
yea.. i still tink going for a picnic or garden party will b the best option.. coz we can santai2.. n laugh like nobody's bisnez.. hahaha..
al kisah.. lelaki tu dulu ade bnyk duit ke..?? or keje bagos ke.. or bawak motor besar..?? (that made her wanna ikat the man cepat2).. then bile da dpt.. skali dpt tau the fellow is not up to her expectations.. then now buat perangai lahh..
she challenged him to divorce her, then what's the man's reaction..??
even thou that guy is pendiam/penyabar nye olang.. but still wen tings have gone out of hand, he must do something bout it what.. in order to save his marriage.. tkkn lahh nk tunggu smp tkle angkat btol2, pastu nk ceraikn or even worse, beat her.. must sit sown n talk tings thru proeperly.. unless da btol2 tk boleh nk buat ape2 lahh..(then tglkn sudah).. tanggung dosa bnyk2 nk buat ape sihh...???
b'coz they ever met w an accident.. so the fellow felt sorie n responsible.. dont ever feel that way in marriage.. coz you'll regret it one day or someday.. you must love the spouse in order to live hepily & blissfully..
then time 1st marriage fomfan tu.. knape dia divorce..? becoz of the same reasons ke..??
i do have a friend(male).. he just got married.. maybe around 3-5 months.. then he told me that he married his wife kerana terpaksa.. he dont't love his wife.. last time wen he got to know his wife, he just get close to her in order to make use of her..(mcm atm lahh..).. the lady bought him a car(subaru lagi..) then they went for holiday(s).. shopping.. etc.. smuer $$ fomfan tu .. then until kreta dia kene bnyk saman.. smuer pon fomfan tu yang bayar kn.. upto 10k.. can you imagine..?? so one day bile fomfan tu ajak dia kahwin.. dia nk tglkn fomfan tu.. so she threatened to commit suicide, wanting to jump from 4th story house.. (hahaha.. part nie kekek.. ..) so nk tknk, dia kahwin lahh jugak ngan fomfan tu.. skrg da jadi bini.. tpi he treat her very coldly.. n now trying to find ways to divorce her.. pathetic rite the lady..??? the man also pathetic lahh.. but not to pity on him toO much.. coz he asked for it.. a lesson learnt for him is.. "not to play e the fire.." hahahaha..
my 1st precious.. 070907
my 2nd precious.. 240810
Did i read prawning??? Jeng jeng jeng... nak itot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
How r my lil mummies doing today??
Ada , nowadays gals most of them like that tau.. I have few frenz macam gitu.. After kenal cara dorang kan, i pun "HI" & "BYE".. Tak kuasa nak layan noh.. I feel geli ar.. FOr me i am friendly to everyone but then i know my limits .. I can be mesra to guys but then tengok siapa.. Mesra pun bukan sembarang mesra eh.. I treat them like own bros gitu .. Otak tak pikir lain nye.. Sentiasa sedar ku dah bersuami .. One thing must remember, what goes up will come down nye.. Seram ..!!!
fuyooh!!! hangat betol cerita ni...