This is a discussion on young malay mums, lets meet over here!! - 28 Feb 2010 and earlier posts ~~ within the Mummy Cafe forum, part of the Community Lounge category; Originally Posted by NuR_iRfAn Correct...Now just wait for the day to come...have more rest...So on that day you will look ...
eh babe.. wrong lahh..
1) Hantaran - dowry(money) - will b given to your parents.. so called like your husband is buying you over(taking responsibilities from your parents..
& dulang(s).. gifts to exhange btn the 2 of you.. eg. shoes/clothes/hp/foods/sejadah(praying mat) etc..
2) Mas Kahwin - it's a must from husband to you.. can b in a form of cash or jewellery.. (husband cannot take back that item from you.. onie you can use the money/jewellery.. else it's a dosa(sin)..
3) Telor Bunga thing.. actually not a compulsory to have that.. it's only a form of tradition.. it will b given away to the guest during ceremony..
you get the whole idea now..??
then selawat & zikir means.. kip on saying your prayers like..
1) Allahumma solli a' sayyidina muhammad wa a' a'li sayyidina muhammad.. or
2) subhanallah / Alhamdulillah.. etc..
it helps to calm you down.. =)
Last edited by lis; 04-12-2009 at 04:42 PM.
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And if you want to have the telur or potporri or scented soap in a sack, the give-away to guests usually about 25-30....this is to be given immediately after the nikah ceremony to guests sitting around. This is not BERKAT (wedding souvenirsfor guests....again which is optional)
Last edited by EnFlor; 04-12-2009 at 04:47 PM.
You may be deceived if you trust too much,but you will live in tormentif you dont't trust enough.(So trust your instincts for it will never lie)
I wanna go for my run but weather looks pretty scary on my side. takut skali tengah jog, gedebush...hujan lebat.
June-Selawat is some prayer that can calm you dwn...Like what Lis mention abv...
Hantaran thats two types One is Shoes/wallet/titbits & etc(optional)...Another one will be form of money that the groom will be giving 2 you...Bt mostly,the hantaran money will be for our parents...Ms kAhwin,you CANNOT SELL....Up to your hubby whether to give you jewellery or money...
As for me,my hubby give me money then i bought Bracelet...
Mane INa???Bz ke??heheh...
June - for mas kahwin.. only the isteri(wife) is allowed to use the money or jewellery.. husband r not allowed to use them.. itu hak isteri(wife's right).. even if they(husband) wanna use them.. they need to ask for your permission 1st.. else it's a sin lahh..
i got mine in a form of cash..
what else do you wanna know..??
Last edited by lis; 04-12-2009 at 05:25 PM.
I think thats all,for now..As what Enflor said,Bunga rampai/potpurri..
okie dokie.... think i've got the gist of all of it.... will ask if i need to know anything else. Thanks ladies! You guys are the best. Hahaha
Ok gtg now..Boss otw back...heheh
you're most welcome beb.. aniting, you can just beep me.. will try my best to clear your doubts.. =)
Ana - BOSS alek nk kene action baek jap.. hehe..
aniwae, running ladies.. you ol ade check mail tk..?? ade great eastern snap shots.. my face was snapped man..!!!! gosh.. luckily, maintain the facial expression.. khakhakhakha..
i search the others(Enflor/Ayu & Ana).. you ol nye muka tkde plak.. =(
hehehe...lebih baik GamBar2 kite takde..malu noh,nnti famous sekejap pulak..heheh
BOSS alek kena jadi isteri mithali jap..hehehe...
halfway thru main game,skali prompt please do your 5 post..Cekik darah seh...
Sori dah terikut krg yg game fanatic....heheh
Si mak nenek ne nak main game...
5...Ok ladies,Have a good nite sleep
Yuuuhaaaa!!! For the 1st time mama ina masok time midnite lak tu.. hhahahahaahahaaaaa... Hubby no home .. Boring seh tak bobok..!! Ana, kau tak tidur kah???
Eh Ana, kau dah ikut macam Lis kepe?? Tgh countdown ehk.. hahahahahahaaaa