This is a discussion on young malay mums, lets meet over here!! - 28 Feb 2010 and earlier posts ~~ within the Mummy Cafe forum, part of the Community Lounge category; Hi semuaz, Wah missed my mummies here...Being a weeks away from Mummysg.... Hubby back home now...So happy.......
Wah missed my mummies here...Being a weeks away from Mummysg....
Hubby back home now...So happy....
AM still in the office.. This whole week me staying back late.. Waiting for hubby to fetch me.. Sitting alone under the aircon boleh beku noh.. Can't wait to go home.. Nari got gathering wit my mum's siblings and my nyayi will be there to celebrate my niece's birthday... Sooooo Happy!!
lambatnya balik Ina. Orang dahh keluar, balik, still masih kat sini jugak kahh.
Takpa, sure you enjoy your makan2 nanti kan. I terbalik kott, orang happy weekend, i sad for this weekend coz BOSS out dahh. Side-kick pi India plak Dahh naik syook dia kat umah dekat 2 minggu kan.....baru padan muka I nih.
Nak alek ni.. Hubby sms cakap malam nak kua dgn budak keje dia.. Rasa2 dia bawak aku tak??? hmmmm...
Bye ladies.. Have a nice weekend..!! Muuuuaacxcckkk!!
oh INA.. aku mcm pelik jap tgk da lmbt gni ko maseh kt ofis..?? hahahaha.. =p
Enflor - that's a great start to see your son finish his food.. eventhou lambat giler.. tkpe.. pelan2 k.. soOn he can eat his foOd as per normal.. dont fret toO much k.. take care..
i makan scott emulsion..?? hahaha.. no lahh.. i nie sebenarnye.. paling payah nk suroh makan ubat.. wakakakaka..!!! klau tk kene marah, selagi tu i self medicate ajek.. hehe.. *wink*
cable car dinner.. actually i ingat my 1st anni ngan husband dulu nk buat kt situ.. tpi tk keseampaian.. sayang plak ku duit.. hahaha.. bayar $200+.. tpi setakat 1-2 hours jek.. =(
my 1st precious.. 070907
my 2nd precious.. 240810
eh lis, you around huh ? Tak merayap ke on Fri nite. I am like stuck at home and feeling lousy after a phone call from PILs...plans all gotta change and i dont't like it when what i've planned out for my kids, kena kacau daun.
Not for me too, only suggest to all those couples yg still on-going with their super romantic feelings...mana tau Su nak take up the idea kan. She needs the pampering, cian dia last base to reach before her lil boy keluar.
I am very practical. Lepak kat beach with meals DIY sendiri tengok budak2 main boleh , ala kadar for a mum of three like me. $$$ put to other usage. But kalo ada you all kat sini nak dinner kat cable car, i suka sangat nak tengok scenery dia.
yea.. am still around.. nk klua ape nye.. husband keje.. so am stuck at home toO.. tiz wk, i kene tgl bnyk kali.. tpi tkpe.. i mintak dia amek 2 days leave next wk to spend more time w me.. hahahaha.. =p
ever since i had annur.. i da tak brape ade feeling nk romantis2 lagi.. gotta adapt to the changes uh.. coz tkle nk harapkn org jage sgt.. nanti kene kate..! (pasal da pernah kene kate.. so da malas nk park anak kt sape2..) melain kn btol2 nk kene.. =(
husband like to be practical also.. more to DIY jugak.. dia lagi kemot $$ ever since da ade anak.. hahaha.. dulu tk trok sgt lahh.. can still shop till drop.. but now.. huhuhuhu..
oh, kalo tinggal dekat, sure both of us dahh calling calling merayap sey!
dont know , i am feeling emo+frust+fedup. I think nak datang red flag. But i dont't like it when some circumstances trigger this kindda negative feeling. Coz baik2 i can get it under control, silap2 i meletop and bila words dahh keluar....tak bley tarik balik kan. So nak kena jaga sikit my words tadi bila berbual with my mother in law although i sounded exasperated tadi. Coz dia pun baru menopause tuh. Just worried over my Robocop boy ni as i still need to monitor his cara makan. But parent in law wanna 'kidnap' the boys over for late lunch kat their house after madr. She said she can handle it.....errmmmm! Gosh, i gotta take solat Isyak soon seblum i have any more ill-feelings sey.
You may be deceived if you trust too much,but you will live in tormentif you dont't trust enough.(So trust your instincts for it will never lie)
Good Evening ladies...
ouh.. icic.. am sure makcik nk dtg lahh tu.. tu pasal you frust menonggeng semacam jek.. hehehe.. chillex(chill + rilex) k.. =)
pasal your mother in law tu.. it's either you persistent + firm, cakap abg lom boleh makan btol2.. then tkmo kasi amek dulu.. atau pon, you just trust, rilex.. jgn frust2 sgt.. then at the same time kan you boleh have your own time kejap.. =)
Enflor - yea.. klau kita tgl dekat.. confirm da mit kat mane2.. hehe.. dok sembang2.. just like the other time.. kita chit chat kt Kovan KFC.. hehe..
Thatz why life is a cycle, priorities change. But itz good to learn from other couples how they spend their romantic times together coz it brings back great memories
For me, anak dahh lebih so expenses pun lebih, mana nak bayar self and kids' insurances, menabung for their tertiary education expenses in future, family holz, medicines and emergencies, contributions to parents. And kita housefly tai tai ni tulang empat kerat yg kerja our Cik Abg aje.
Yah, i've always taken that role you've mentioned whenever it comes to my PILs coz in my head, dorang pun ada anak dulu, their kids all turn out successful so i nak takut apa. Keep replaying that in my head all the time bila mcm setan setan ni tiup angin frust dalam my kepala otak. My mother in law pun tak sihat so i tak nak kasi matter worse for her. She is kind lahh i must say.
haha.. yea.. our priorities changes when we get married & have kids.. but sometimes it doesn't mean that we can't have our own romantic times together.. nk kene tgk keadaan uh.. once in a while it's still ok.. maybe time anak2 go camping ke.. then kita pon
'camping' uh.. hehehehe.. =p
ouh enflor.. klau bab your kes.. your mother in law.. you can trust coz the children turned out successful.. but for my case.. dua2 side pon i susah nk percaya.. hahaha.. baek mother in law or even my own mom.. wakakakaka..
No more romantic time in my dictionary. Hubby and I now go for quality time. like mcm tadi gi groceries shopping together, duk minum teh tarik kat kedai mamak for 30mins while we park kids with their grands, share a bowl of noodles at night bila kids smua dahh tido, do laundry together and berbual dont know what, etc etc....hehehe....well, thatz life for Enflor and hubby.
Last edited by EnFlor; 29-01-2010 at 08:39 PM.
Eh, tak baik tau cakap mcm tu, bila kita susah, dorang jugak nanti kita cari. Just need to have a different way to handle orang orang tua ni. Kalo Plan A tak menjadi, pikir lain plan pulak. Mcm skarang, i tengah breathe in, breathe out and hang up home phone. Kalo lahh my mother in law call lagi, drama sensasi plak nanti. Lebih baik phone engage dari i jadi SI TANGGANG derhaka.