This is a discussion on young malay mums, lets meet over here!! - 28 Feb 2010 and earlier posts ~~ within the Mummy Cafe forum, part of the Community Lounge category; Originally Posted by rhay mornin mommies..... aishah & singlemama-welcum aboard.......... insyaallah .......amin...... niqab cam tkde aircon pat dlm...... amin2 tk ...
hehehehe... once a while takpe... insyaAllah... amin... yup niqab mmg takde aircon... once a while wearing it with jubah look nice... it seems lyk a complete women with that.... klu nak pakai with baju biasa.. it not suit... da jadi mcm ninja tu..... tapi dotter tak kasi pakai niqab... die takot.... hehehe
Enflor wanna ask, limau CNY brand apa yg manis and powerrr ? I wanna get 1 box makan kat rumah. Sini neighbours smua lokek ahh tak kasi limau pun.
Ina- you ask around kat ofis the nyonya2 sana, limau apa yg good to buy ?
Jiranku yg baik hati, cantik rupawan, wangi-wangian one-drop perfume, jgn marah2, nanti jadi mcm Enflor smalam, blood pressure naik sampai tingkat atas HDB block.
ok, later sambung ehh INA... ako nak send doter to school... c ya!!!
Nari kitchen closed..Goin out ltr to Kandang Kerbau Hospital..My old good friend baru give birth..baby having heart prob....Being like 5 yrs tak jumpe....all the memories dtg balek...heheh
Enflor syg,knape ne???takmu marah2 nye....hug2
oh dear, the baby ada heart prob. Or is it those lobang about a few mm...then when the baby grows besar sikit....within months or weeks, the lobang close balik (i can't rembr the name of that condition) One of my kids gitu tau, was shocked to learn that from doc and worried but subsequent checks, the lobang gone. Till now no prob.
not in the best moOd at ol.. afta tiring days taking care ol the old one(mother in law).. i came back home on tuesday.. nk rest.. plus still need to get tings ready for husband to work the next day.. then yesterday(weds), supposed to go over to mother in law's place again to take care of her.. but i didn't.. coz feeling lethargic & not too well.. husband pon cakap tkya.. then nari.. i called up mother in law home.. to check on her.. husband cuzzi(adek sedare) is der for her holiday actually.. so secare tk langsung she could actually help to take care of her.. i talked to her & asked bout mother in law.. she said mother in law's fever had subside.. pening2 pon da tk sgt.. plus da start makan cket.. then i asked if she(mother in law) needed me to go der(to cook for her, etc..)
then she said NO NEED.. i felt kinda useless at these point of time.. coz wen i called up, husband's aunt was der to bring food for her.. (in fact i did brought/cooked food for her wen i took care of her on the other days.. but she did not eat at ol.. kecik hati..) then wen i told husband's cuzzi that i wanna talk to mother in law for awhile.. she told me that she doesn't wanna talk to me..
am i at fault now..??? just because i didn't come for one day(yesterday) to take care of her..??
in fact i was der like almost 2 wks already.. in the beginning, i was from last weds.. till sat, i went back home in late noOn.. then sunday aftanoon, i was back at hougang again to take care of her..(the day she fell sick).. then on tuesday i was back in yishun lahh.. wen i was der.. no one else around the house were bothered to attend to her..
then now, she's giving me the cold shoulder.. you ol faham tk ape LIS cakap..??
my 1st precious.. 070907
my 2nd precious.. 240810
faham.. dont take it too hard... maybe die sakit... that why... takpe kita yg muda nie nak kena mengalah...and further old ones nie bila sakit at tym dorang need attention frm others too...further more you were there almost 2 weeks... so it kinda fine... look at the bright side.. you done your very best to take care of her..... besar tau pahala wen taking care those old ones.... just remember that....
ehtah lahh zhann.. you dont know perangai dia mcm mane.. i bet she's been telling the others(makcik2 yang lain) shits about me.. pastu yang dpt name, anak sedare dia ngan anak lelaki dia yang gemok tu..!! (memang i tk mintak name.. tpi the least she can do is to appreciate what husband & me have done for her..)
padahal anak sedare ngan anak lelaki dia tu tk buat ape2.. si gemok(the elder son) tu lagi boleh klua umah.. gi jalan2.. bile dia nmpk husband & me ade kt sane to take care of mother in law.. kan perangai mcm monyet gitu..??
mcm mane i tk kecik hati ngan marah bile dia buat mcm nie.. seolah-olah selame nie i tkde buat ape2 plak..
my 1st precious.. 070907
my 2nd precious.. 240810
Bleh nari i pegi arab st..beli shawl & i-style...wohoooo...Ayuuuuuuu
Just dont think too much....Asal kan borhan tahu hw you took care of his mum..dah cukup baik..
woteva lahh.. aku da tk kuasa lagi.. in fact this is not the 1st time aku dpt treatment mcm nie ngan mother in law aku ngan the other makcik(s)..
da.. aku pon malas nk stress2 kan pasal org lain.. aku jage diri aku baek2, lagi bagos.. nanti kepala aku yang saket..
i felt beta afta confiding w husband..
Hugs Hugs to Lis...
I agree with Ana and Zhann. Orang tua ni kalo sakit dorang sering merajuk. And buat mcm I, kadang my mother in law pun kadang2 angin jugak but considering her condition, i tutup sebelah mata aje. Like that, at least hati kita terjaga jugak.
Impt thing is you and hubby know how you take care of mother in law and bab dia mengumpat ke, mengata ke about you (wallahuallam) itu antara dia dengan Allah. Just do what you have to as a good daughter in law. And futhermore, berbadan dua ni kadang2 kita emo kuat sikit....so you kena banyak sabar.