This is a discussion on Any malay/muslim mummies around??? within the Year 2012 Mummy forum, part of the Mummy Meeting Place category; Originally Posted by laydeesnap assalamualaikum.. Allah noes best...i suffered a 'missed miscarriage' its was devastating..bt i know He plans better ...
I did some research and found out that if your body is not ready, it might automatically reject the embryo. That's why even before pregnant, we need to prepare our body by taking folic acid. Secondly, if our body notices that the embryo is not normal, our body will reject it too. So when it happened to me, I told myself that even if I were to carry the baby full term, it might not be a healthy baby. And alhamdulillah, I'm pregnant again. This time round, hubby didn't have any symptoms and I make sure that I dont't carry heavy objects.
So dear, dont't despair. He knows what's best for you and He has better plans for you. Just relax and try again next month. =D Insya-Allah, when the time is right, you will get pregnant again. *hugz*
I myself had a miscarriage last March, when I was beginning the 2nd trimester. It took me awhile to come to terms and move on, but with the hubby's support, and by Allah's will, I learnt to be strong, and Alhamdulillah, exactly one year after my evacuation date will insyaAllah be my edd this year. For He knew better, that in the span of one year, so many things wld change; my father in law passed on, my hubby had to take on a bigger responsibility for his family, and our financial situation improved Alhamdulillah. So take care, have faith, and be strong, sis Should you need a listening ear, I'm just a PM button away
Morning mummies, Jumma mubarak!
Hope all are doing well and things are going smoothly. 32 weeks now and baby is constantly moving so much, specially at night! I can feel his kicks and punches even at the top near my chest!!! must be in some superman position with heads down i guess lolz.
Next appt on 5th march, development scan. Praying hard everything will be alright. No point worrying unnecessarily I know, cuz everything is in Allah's hands at the end of the day.
Waddling badly nowadays lolz, are you mummies in last trimester having same problem? cousins call me penguin already urgghhhh!!
Is it still ok to have massage session at this stage?
i dont't know about massages dear. my mom and husband forbid me from doing any massages since i got pregnant. the funny thing is, my mother in law yang asyik suruh i gi urut. haha! well if you have an experienced masseur, why not?
Mosqeetoh, since you're already at 8mths, it's best not to massage, since your baby's already in the head-down position. But if course if you're not intending to massage the tummy,& just your legs or hands or other aching parts, then it should be fine
at the time of the scan i'll be almost 34 weeks so i think the scan is just to check baby position and his general growth. tell me about the gastric and bloating issues!! i thought I've learnt to manage these problems but apparently nowadays nothing works as predicted. whether i eat less/more/early/late/spicy/sweet it doesnt matter, the bloating, gastric and heartburns just appear as and when it feels like! i read somewhere bloating could possibly be a sign of preeclampsia, kinda worried about my bp now! but inshaAllah, trying to limit my food and salt intake.
yupp, i normally dont massage the tummy just other aching body parts! I find the massage sessions extremely relaxing, specially since I'm the easily tensed type Yesterday my mom was admitted in hospital due to water in her lungs so there'll be much running around for me, plus mother in law also started sibuk2 want to interfere in my preparation, feel so stressed! I hope she gets herself busy with her other kids and grandkids lolz!!
Any0ne went t0 the baby fair at exp0 already? H0w waS it ?? W0rth g0ing tk?
im so excited for all of you.. me too now in 32 .. 21/3 baru nak gi scan and checkup.. my doc also said that baby quite big..that was last week... my 7th month baby is already 1.6.. i wonder how heavy he is now.. hehehe.. i think we can massage our other part of body except for tummy like what themissus said.. heartburn now and my tummy always feel tight.. for me.. they asked me to eat smaller meals a lot of times.. tapi whenever im at home i can'resist my mother in law cook... nanti dah terlebih makan menyesal coz i feel very heavy like i can't do anything else... and i dislike nasi so i replace it with bread or mee.. i drag myself to work every morning.. luckily my baby boy now .. i think understands that im having another one.. he doesn't show tantrums lately and understand when i said i can't carry him sometimes.
I hope all of us will have a safe and smooth delivery when the time comes. the only problem i have now is my pelvic area always feel pain.. i asked my friend.. she asked me not to walk so much coz it might be the cervix is opening and if we walk or work so hard the cervix can easily open for labour.. so scary..
And yah, these days nothing helps with the heartburn and bloating. Small meals dont't work anymore. At tomes I have to sleep sitting up coz it just hurts so bad. As much as I'm nervous about childbirth, I can't wait for all these pregnancy symptoms to end!
the pelvic pain will be part of our lives till we give birth now!! Bayu dont worry i dont think the cervix is opening as you walk, our pelvic bones are just making some way to prepare for delivery! thank god another 2 mths or so to go only for us!
I've been walking a lot this past week, a lot of errands to run and at the end of the day I felt like i was walking terkangkang!!! but usually the next morning it feels better, after a good night's rest.
finally finished my shopping for the essentials phewwww! just left with bathtub, looking for a small one. i think the normal hdb shops also sell right? cant be bothered to buy a huge expensive one cuz i think i'll end up bathing baby in the sink once he's 7-8 mths hehehe
having toasts or biscuits first thing in the morning helps if you want to avoid heartburn. I tried a small sized carbo meal (rice/bread) at night the other day and i realised it gives me a comfy sleep at night! experiment banyak2 sampai bersalin lolz
i'm experiencing headaches more like compression headaches but only on my left side till my gigi also sakit. but i guess it's the nerve in my gums yang sakit n it's been gg on for like 4-5 days already. i cannot open my mouth big2 also. my right side is completely fine just the left side je. bila bgn nak g keje all ok but once da kat keje, da settle down all, buat keje sikit then the pain will come. it's so annoying knowing if go to the dr also they kasi panadol aja.
any of you ladies experience this? TIA
I was craving for kacang pool, so I cooked some for breakfast today, and had a bowl. My friend later called to say that I shouldn't eat broad beans (flava beans), coz it's bad for the baby. Is this true? I googled it up, and there are so many differing views on this. Anyone knows if eating kacang pool would hurt my baby? I'm week 37 now, if that helps.
sweetoothz - yup i think you shld inform your doc about this headache, we never know what is the underlying problems! sounds like a very bad one since it's affecting your gums as well.
themissus - i heard the same thing that broad beans are not advisable during pregnancy but dont know for what reason. But you've already consumed, just tawakalillah only. At wk 37 i'm sure those beans are not going to affect baby's health or growth inshaAllah.
Morning all Mummies,
Just checking, im now at 20 week i been having a slight pain on & off on the right side of my tummy. its not very pain but just like a poking sensation on & off which i cant ignore. Any of you experience before. this occur yesterday evening for around 20 min & now already lasted for 10 mins.
never experienced this before but if the level of pain is getting worse over the time then better check with doc. when i had kidney stones, the pain was on left and lasted 20 mins. But dont worry for all you know it cld be all those stretching and cramping going on inside us