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I nak share my experience with you all, i notice for this pregnancy I nie mmg always get irritated by husband deed, looks, at time i just tell him to shut up dont talk to me.... (luckily my hubby understands my mood well). I even get irritated & find it difficult to sleep when he move to change position on the bed while sleeping. And i always very rude to him when he made the slightest move on bed before i fall a sleep. but insya allah i got to know that i tak berdosa pasal at time i cant control my emotions during pregnancy. Anyone have the same hatred experience. But my feelings for my hubby takla ke tahap teruk cuma menyampah aje kadang2
For me, I think I irritate my husband a lot! But he's been such a wonderful husband. He will prepare the meals for me, do laundry and even fold the clothes. I'm just too exhausted to do work after 3pm. And that's the time when my MS will start. But one thing I can't stand is when he smokes around me or when he sprays his perfume. All perfumes smell weird to me even though I used to love the smell of his perfume.
Hi Diza & Sweethotz,
Luckily Im not alone, kadang2 kesian i tgk i marah2 dia but he just laugh it off. But tak tau how to make the feelings go away a times. My mum said this time round mayb my baby will look more like him. hopefully cause my daughter looks like my carbon copy, kalau this one looks like him then its fair
morning ladies, hmmmmmmmm this love-hate relationship with husband during pregnancy memang familiar to me as well lolz
initially started off with can't stand being near him, his smell, his breath, the way he shaved, his words... everything i hated! his off days sure we quarrel but of course he has to give in all the time hehhehe. Now not so bad, not because i made any efforts but because he knows better not to tick me off!!
I wonder what causes all this eh? dont tell me it's hormones again! Nowadays i'm really beginning to miss my pre-pregnancy life, i miss being normal, even to the extent feeling depressed about myself! Can't wait to give birth already!
I have appt tdy with my gynea and a scan this afternoon, worried about my bp, if shoot higher than usual sure kena tahan one! I'm 34 wks tmrw, hopefully the baby position, amniotic fluid level and whatever whatever yg impt at this stage is all in the correct order!
I do get upset with my hubby too tapi i think not too bad. But i realise that im very teary nowadays. Sikit sikit nak sensitive. Sometimes when i think back mcm kelakar gitu, bende yg tak perlu sensitive pon i can get upset. My mum also said that did pregnancy im not as stubborn as my previous. My previous pregnancy i was so stubborn that even my mum cldnt stand me.lol!
But i wil usually ask my hubby, parents n parents-in-law for forgiveness esp towards the end of pregnancy. N i wil ask them to pray for my safe delivery. Sometimes during this period of time, hormones changing n all, we dont realise that we hurt their feelings
Salamz ladies...!!! First time posting in this thread..!! How are you all feeling?? Please allow me to introduce myself..
I am a full-time working mum with a 27month old and a 10month boy...Now 31weeks pregnant with my baby girl..Last checkup at 29 weeks,my baby already weighed 1.6kg..Looks like i'm gonna be expecting another big baby..Delivered my 1st son via emergency c-sect at 39weeks weighing 3.84kg and delivered my 2nd son via scheduled c-sect at 38weeks weighing 4.03kg..But syukur Alhamdulilah..As long as my babies are healthy..I dont mind how big they are..
Anyways looking forward to "meeting" all you ladies from here..In the meantime..Take good care of yourselves dearies..!!
wsalam izanyzam, alhamdulillah your baby is growing well! good to have an experienced mom like yourself here lolz. you must have your hands full with your 2 elder kids, how are you coping with work and all? hope you get enough rest!
sweetoothz and ramblingmummy - must minta maaf eh?! now that you gals mention, i think i've been very blunt to a lot of ppl during this pregnancy lolz. I used to be very quiet and dont know how to say no type of person. But i noticed past few mths i've been very straight forward and refused to be bullied into agreeing to something against my wishes. In a way i feel bad but I also feel that this new-found sensitivity has made me a better judge of ppl's sincerity. wonder if i'll go back to my meek self after delivery!!
just an update - saw my gynea yesterday, alhamdulillah all is well with baby and fluid level as well as my BP. What a relief! NExt check-up in 3 weeks' time at week 37! Getting nearer and I'm getting very very anxious!!!
Now that baby is heads down, I'm feeling very uncomfortable all the time specially at the upper tummy! feel like so senak! heartburn is my best friend nowadays. Oh well, all for the sake of having precious little ones!
Hope the rest of you ladies are doing well too.
And just like you if there's one pregnancy symptom i hate the most,its HEARTBURN..!!! And the senak part tu jgn cakap..Makin teruk after every meal..No matter how much or how little i eat..!!
And i have so much stuff to do..Sejak ngandung my No.2,i stayed with my in-laws..But now since i da ngandung my no.3..I'm shifting back to my own home arnd mid April..Doa2 agar my girl jgn kluar dulu sblum i pindah..!! Heehee..
Well i'm here to share my advice and experiences if you ladies esp first-time mummies need any..Feel free to ask yah..!!!
W'salam izanyzam.. your baby all seems to be healthy. I wish my baby will be big also this time.
For my first baby im super sensitive... and very fierce.. but to hate my hubby not for both pregnancy.. I heard about this also but i actually hated my 1step daughter this time.. but for a while only like 1mth plus.. i scolded her once and after that i never talk to her at all.. every solat i will pray that tis hatred will go away coz she is always manja with me.. Alhamdulillah it ended.. and thanks to my hubby.. he help me a lot also... i feel relieved after that... but after that incident im more relax.. and more penyabar like how sweetoothz.. hopefully baby will be penyabar also. heheh
Hi.. i nak enquiry...
E.g kalau we 0p f0r private under Kandang Kerbau Hospital kan.. iS there any caSh dep0Sit inv0lved?? Even th0ugh mediSave kita m0re than en0ugh? What i meant waS can we utilized 0ur mediSave w/0 f0rking 0ut $..? PlS adviSed? Sebab im checking 0ut f0r a friend... im n0t Sure either Sebab im alS0 a 1St tyme mum..
the other type is service is classic delivery service, also under private scheme. in classic delivery service, when you check in at delivery suite the midwives and medical doctors will attend to you. once you betul2 dah nak deliver then your gynae will be paged. i'm not sure about the deposit amount for that service.
class b2 wards and below tak payah deposit, but that means any doctor will deliver you, not necessarily your gynae.
hope that helps.
im going for a scheduled c-sect this april and im wondering about using the abdominal belt after the op.. some say you need to use it right after the c-sect.. some say the 2nd day... now im not sure when to use it? Isit gonna be painful at the wound area.. and when do we normally start to get the massage or urut.. did you makan jamu and all that traditional stuff..?
ThanS f0r the adviSed.. n0w i faham... thankS f0r explaining in detail...
Any0ne 0f you ader gi 3D Scanning tk?? N0rmally brape weekS dear husband check??
im not preg yet but trying.. nak tanya.. did any of you engage traditional urut lady? for before & after preg? how much and what does she do?
ps. im not muslim
nowadays the range is between 60-80, depending on the individual urut ladies.
Hi lateehs84, I did went for trad urut before I conceived... It is called "sangkak" where the urut lady will massage yr tummy and reposition your womb to the right "location"... some of us may have low womb so we need to push it up .. if the womb is too low, it's more difficult to conceive.. The payment is ikhlas and normally i pay about $30 for 1hr of massage.... Pls PM me if you want contact....
~mosqeetoh - i remember seeing a documentary on suria or TV1 whr the urut lady will use kain to balut the perut during pregnancy.. im actually just planning way way ahead.. belum lagi ngandung pun.. just wanna keep an eye out so i dont kalang kabut later. pregger brain & all..
~zaclin29 - i will contact you nxt month.. ovulating on tues so gonna try 1st.. will know by apr.. kalau tak jadi then i PM you.. :-)