anyone has any good ideas on how to curb negative thoughts?
This is a discussion on EDD April Mummies within the Year 2012 Mummy forum, part of the Mummy Meeting Place category; to dilys, dont worry ya, yr oscar test will be fine. mommy anxious31, im goin on 18 too! which gynae ...
dont worry ya, yr oscar test will be fine.
mommy anxious31, im goin on 18 too! which gynae you seeing?
anyone has any good ideas on how to curb negative thoughts?
Hi mummies ,
I just got back from my Oscar .. Baby very well positioned so the test went on just 10 mins. Taken the blood test,result will be out in one week later. Saw little one little hands and legs.. Head & nose bridge .. Looks exactly like my Hubby very high nose bridge
Doc given.. Iron,calcium & dha pills now
Remember to eat your breadfast when you go for your test, drink lots of water & most important got to talk to your baby ask little one to be good for the test !
Thanks mummies anxious31 & janette for the encouragement ! Yeah .. Jia you ... 2nd trimester ...
Haha talk to your Hubby make him understand . If you Hubby dont't wash fruits for you .. Then ask him to wash .. you dont't have to keep the anger in yourself. For me ... I told my Hubby to be prepared for any unreasonable behavior during this period.... haha your Hubby must be able to torelate your nonesense .. Hehe for me I sometimes After throwing some trantums I feel so good.. Haha my Hubby will give me whatever I want .. I will throw all the pillows on the floor n Hubby will pick it up. After that I will be ok.. Haha the behavior is just ridiculous ! Haha .. But no choice .. Right now ..
Can't help it .. No way for us to think any positive on such issue.. Hubby must accommodate along with your behavior.
Hihi,mine seems worst.I would cry whnever i need to wake up to go wrk.Probably hated wrk veri much due to colleagues problems.
It seems lik im a sinner to b pregnant when im wrking.
Today i actually dreamt thrice of mi being dead.
husband doesnt seems to care that much as well,i know his character is tis way.But he just cnt seems to understand e pain im going thru.
Is just so tiring..
Omg.. Dont always cry not good for your baby. Hmm .. This is your 2nd pregnancy right ?? you Hubby still dont't understand what you going tru?? Yucks men sometimes r you just so cuckoo!!
What happen to your colleague .. They scold you ?? If it were to be me.. I will scold back .. dont't care !
Do something you like.. Think of something that make you happy. Haha... For me when I m not happy I will just vent my anger out.. Throw pillows & I watch alot of drama that make me distracted..
Maybe talk to your Hubby see how he can help you along. I always think that we shouldn't be suffering alone.. Be happy then you will be a happy baby! If you r happy hardly you will have nightmares..
I always laughing, giggling, smiling when I m sleeping ..
Jiayou!! Vent out your anger here if you want also can ...
i understand that due to stress and hormonal changes, we might be suffering for mild depression. i just found some info online..
Understanding Depression - Health Promotion Board Singapore
Depression during pregnancy | BabyCenter
it seems to be pretty common to have some sort of depression during pregnancy so dont worry.. but do raise this to your gynae if its really bothering you ok? take care..
Hi hi,im not seeing a specific gynae yet.Still under sub patient.When i tried to tell e dr ytd,she doesnt seems to hear it,busy with phone calls etc.sigh.
husband tink is just mi that being difficult,y cnt i handle problems at wrk on my own?
I dont know y my colleague behaves lik im transparent.Basically we two needs to help each other,but we r not talking out of a sudden.I figure out that i might have step on her tails as i was not at wrk when she need to go on half day leave before her hari raya.But i was not well ,force mi to come wrk just coz you need go on half day leave?N another thing is i always forget to top up e things needed,so most probably she is not happy that she is e one doing it?
Before she stop talking to mi,whenever she need help with her online shopping,i will help.We will chit chat.
I really dont understand y she chg out of a sudden.She is a mom of two,both premature babies.She told mi befe,for both babies she dont have MS.So does that mean i shldnt have too?
My husband,my mom n everyonr else cant seems to understand y i dont wanna go work,is just lik so tiring to just face e computer e whole day with no one to chat with out of a sudden.
I understand how you feel! dont't let this kind of stupid people effect you !!! Anything just share with us. sigh.. When you having your No.1 do you feel this way also?? Hmm.. sigh .. Men never understand .. What we r actually going tru!
Hopefully one day .. Men can go tru pregnancy instead of we ladies... Let them suffer.. Hahaha ...
I know it's hard for you .. you can't keep quiet if you think you need help.. If I were you I will tell her off !! Sometimes people tends to bully you when you r at your worst period .. Tell her off one time see how it goes..
I was a very emotional person before pregnant so now even more mood swings. Somedays depress coz lots of pimples on my face and I can't use acne pdts; somedays cry because not feeling very comfortable or feel touched by people's kind gestures; somedays just out of nowhere scold my husband...somedays very happy that I m pregnant...somedays worried if baby is growing well in my tummy...
Everything will b fine for you as well. dont't worry be happy.
I was not wrking when i have my dear son.Was feeling blues too,coz husband wrk long hours but was feeling much better coz i cn rest as n when i wanted.
Trying real hard not to let her affect mi so much.
Ya,guys shld try hw does it feel to have your hormones all screw up,MS,childbirth pain n all e fears that come with pregnancy
For the pimple issue .. Did you try the Japanese cucumber ??
During the scan .. Can see the little both hands n legs .. Haha very cute .. My little one showing the "five" when scan the little right hand.. Before the nite .. Before you go you must talk to your baby. My friend took chocolate and drink coke before the test .. The baby too active jumping here n there.. Her test about 3 hours.
dont't worry everything will be fine !!!
Last edited by Dilys; 12-10-2011 at 01:23 PM.
Dear mummies, can we eat salad, as in, raw vege? I've been tryin to avoid but find that my intake of vege is seriously little...
Haha.. Play safe cos" I will throw trantums when I feel hungry.. Haha so scared little one attitude prob so I take breakfast. Oh ya .. Remember to drink lots of water before test also then you can see a very clear scan.
I still left with 3 folic acid & a few dupheston .. Gynae ask me to finish it ! Now 2nd trimester concentration on baby"s development .. Iron , calcium & dha ( for baby"s brain development)