Next life .. If I can choose ... I want to be a Man hahahhaa
This is a discussion on EDD April Mummies within the Year 2012 Mummy forum, part of the Mummy Meeting Place category; Originally Posted by princessminn I was not wrking when i have my dear son.Was feeling blues too,coz husband wrk long ...
Luckily for me and a few other mummies here, we r currently not working.
Can understand how tiring and emotional it can b handling colleagues at work and the insecurity of not performing too well at work when pregnant.
Just take it easy, dont't be too hard on yourself. Maybe can try to offer some tibits to your colleague to "break the ice"?
A lot of people dont understand the different symptoms different pregnant women have. An example is my mum who gave birth to 4 children. She said last time her MS only 2 weeks n then she hand washed the whole family's clothes, clean windows etc... She even asked me dont't read too much otherwise worry this worry that. Ha, her generation is tougher n more simple-minded I guess. She said for 4 children, the dr dint give her any multivit or supplement to eat...also like that. She thinks I'm too pampered, little bit uncomfortable then cannot. but she's taking very good care of me of course.
My hubby is away for work right now n he calls everyday. I asked him to give me priority for this period n tell him that hormones is making me even more emotional but I can tell from his answers he kind of doubt it. To him, he always feel that it's mind over matter. What an idiot. :O
Next life .. If I can choose ... I want to be a Man hahahhaa
How's everyone doing? I'm starting to "show"!
Appeitte is better now for me .. almost back to normal already mine is showing too .. tummy looks very very big at nite .. my friend was telling me looks like 4mths. haha .. but surprisly i have not't gain any extra weight & fats.. I lost another 2kg.
How's your appeitte ??
Good Good. Glad your appetite become better .. yeah !!! Jia you ... haha .. I m at the beginning of 3 mths.. my friend was telling me it's water that's why so big...
Do you realised that your tummy becomes especially big at nite??
Jia you .. Everything will be fine for your Oscar!
Hi mummies ,
Something to shared ... just this wed went for my gynae.. There is this pregnant mummy with the hubby inside the clinic ! So pissed off with both of them .. The clinic was so crowded .. seats are all full. The hubby still can continue sitting there with the wife & play game instead of hubby giving up his seat to other pregnant mummies.. (Damn .. Piss off ..)
Both of them having cough ... was taking turns coughing all the way in the clinic ... Stupid right ... How can they be so inconsiderate ... there are so many other mummies inside ...I can tell all the mummies inside look so piss off also .. but dont't dare to say anything!
* I was so piss .. I went to the counter .. I told the nurse very loudly .. how come people who r sick wasn't given a mask to protect any virus spreading to all mummies.
I think they are not a local (i think from china...) .. then i was telling my hubby in chinese later.. some men really dont't know how to automatic think as if he is preg.. sit there happily .. n not giving up seats to those mummy with very very big tummy .. he thinks his wife is pregg only. I think he heard what I said then he pretend to go toilet & give up his seat.. haha .. his wife i think damn piss off...
But I dont't care .. she keep staring at me .. haha .. I continue talking to my hubby .. I said .. some people think here only she is preggie... cough & spread virus .. dont't know the virus come from which country .. haha .. She heard it .. cos' I was talking purposely very loudly .. then she & her hubby pretend to leave the clinic to get something ... & they actually wait outside !
ahaha dilys you funny ..
well, its true that a lot of ppl out there regardless of race still have no sense of understanding, appreciation and sensitivity. macam we owe them a living.
well, to add on, really sorry to say those immigrants are so much everywhere now and behaving like in their own country.
you know rite, punggol near blk 196 got pasar malam, i took a walk yesterday there, omg...i saw those china man squatting at bus stop, drink beer, smoke like nobody business. aiyo...buay tahan ...
d worst is, whn my huby was granted his citizenship earlier this month, there was tis ceremony at a school in sengkang. i went with him and im shocked to see that most of the new citizen are....them...
mayb the huby is a professional , but d whole chin-gang as in his wife, grandma, kids, baby all were granted citizenship too!! and, they hardly can speak english...
i dont't mean to discriminate but.....sometimes feel like unfair..
hmm...dont angry dilys... just tell those ppl off when they so inconsiderate to preggos!!
all mamas, have a good day!
feeling veri veri veri down...
went for my down syndrome scanning ytd n was told by e dr i'm having high risk...
i dont know what shld i do now...
is lik adding to e stress i already had...
y cant my tis pregnancy be smooth sailling like my first one...
Haha janette ...
Lucky the catch the ball.. Know I m talking about them & wait outside ! If not I will tell them off.. Give the lady face also she is also preggie dont't want to say anything too nasty .. Just want them to get lost ..As they both coughing happily..without covering their stupid mouth !
you can see how relieved the other mummies .. When both waited outside .. Or else all use tissue to cover their nose n mouth!
Wa Lau .. What if any of us preggie get the virus & spread the cough to us just because of them ! One time my Hubby Acc me .. He was sneezing all the way .. I make him wear a face mask when going in to clinic!
dont't be down ! .. what happen?? The ultrasound show something not right?? Have you known the result of your blood test ? Be positive ! Gynae give you any other suggestion?Like go for another test to reconfirmed? Now you got a problem.. even more you got to be positive... i believe in Miracle . Strong Determination is very important ...
Shared with you a case okie .. I got a friend went for the oscar test.. result was positive...she is at the stage that Doc ask her to terminate it . End up she decided to keep the baby .. you know what she given birth to a healthy baby boy & her son is super intellegent than any other friends baby who r born around the same time.. her son can speak early than other friends kids. Very very active .. handsome boy also .. dont't have the sign of dear son.
you must be positive now ... or else your baby will be affected also ! Be strong ..baby will be strong as you ! Talk to your baby .... tell little one .. it's ok.. Everything will be fine .. Jia you !
Hmm.. Why dont't opt for blood test .. i thought Oscar test consist of scan & blood test . After looking at the scan, blood test is to confirmed to determine the result !
Where do you visit your gynae?? Hmm.. If I were you .. I will not take both test .. I will go to another gynae for the Oscar Test again.
For your info.. CVS & AMINO, both got the risk of miscarriage.
CVS : Doc will take cells from your plancenta for lab test (*this test cannot detect neural tube defects -baby's brain & spine) , so at the later part of your 2nd trimester usually there will be a blood test to again test for this defect.
AMINO: Doc will inserted a needle to remove a portion of the amniotic fluid. (* this test can detect neural tube defects)
* If you r doing this test, please talk to your baby ask little one to be good n dont't eat too those food that make baby too active jumping around.. the needle might hurt little one if moving too much.
Be positive ! If you got the will , there is a way !!! you must be strong for the baby now ... Jia you !
Dilys,i did my scan at Kandang Kerbau Hospital.dere is three packages,i took e one that only has scanning as is e cheapest n i actually belong to e low risk group due to age.N my first pregnancy results was good so i thought tis might b e same.
husband not keen to go for another scanning else where.
Did ask e dr if i were to do a blood test will e results b more accurate,e dr said not much difference.
Shld b going for amino test in early nov.
Though part of mi do not wish to go thru e test.
Im really not keen to keep e baby if he or she is gonna b a Down Syn baby as e costs n all o factors r not favourable to us though im against abortion.But bringing a Down syn baby up really require lots of money n patience.
dont't give up so easily ! The friend i told you doc told her, her baby got dear son .. oscar was also done at KK.
Imagine if she is so negative that time , she won't have given birth to a healthy boy ! If she give up so easily that time .. she is killing her own normal child!
Why dont't try for the blood test & see what's the result? Amino test got the risk you know. Please dont't give up so easily ... It's a living baby .. I think you should try to do the less risk test (blood test) then decide if you really need to go for amino. Give your little one a chance.. to try .. dont't give up just like that .
How can you determine ... that baby is a confirmed having dear son just because of the neck thickness? Maybe your gynae make a mistake?
If I were you .. I will go for the blood test. If result not good, I will go to another gynae for another test, if still not good.. then go for amino. If result positive .. then you think of wherther you want to keep or not.
you have go tru till now this stage ... dont't give up .. your baby is moving inside your stomach (*thou you can't feel it now). Jia you !!
first of all, you must be tough...ok? like what dilys said, perhaps there's a mistake or there will be miracle. Allow me to share my story with you.
exactly same time in year 2010, i was also pregnant, of course im so happy as it's our 1st baby after married for so many yrs. We didnt struggle to try for kid but bcoz me n hubby both msian, and not acquiring PR wont allow us to have baby here.
Finally when all our things slowly settled down, i thought d arrival is a joy. I wasnt quite prepared for that little one, so a lot of worries...(which is really no good for baby)
same thing, my gynae back then in KK , i opt for the blood+scan oscar. During the not scan, d sonographer have a hard time getting d neck measurement, he ended d scan by telling me not so good, so gotta wait for blood result.
when combined with blood test result, i was also in high risk group, and guess what, im in the range 1:45 which is way high risk. im oni 30 yrs old last yr...
the next test to confirm was CVS... i even paid extra to get d result done quickly coz i have not left my job yet. and my bumps are showing and my job wouldnt allow me to continue.
3days ltr, gynae called to confirm its a boy. i was so happy. few days down, i decided to tender my resignation. And this few days were also a complete 1 week for the full CVS result to be out.
On the day when im 2 hours away to tender, my gynae called and mentioned it was confirmed mosaic down syndrome. in a way, he saved me from tendering my resignation letter, but thats not important.
now, me n hubby gotta mk a very important decision, which is to continue pregnancy or terminate. We spoke to counselling and of course it was a very hard n harsh decision to make.
Like what you mentioned, we dont either want to do abortion or keep an unhealthy baby. me n hubby not ready for such result where bringing up special kids needs special attention, care, costs, patience and time and challenge.
my gynae oni have 1 advice after listening to us, he said try again...
princessmin, dont stress ureself! speak or get 2nd advice perhaps? discuss with hubby.
of course, pray !
sometimes i regret what i did but i tell myself, i have to be strong!
therefore for this time round, i be more positive... and thanks to having all mommies around who gives support.
i also heard a friend of mine that dont bother bout d result, go ahead and gv birth, baby was healthy.
bottom line, you n hubby decide the best and support each other.
Hope you are well ! Look at this link : Blood Test Shows Baby high risk with T21 down syndrome
I got brown spotting. Is this normal? I should be 7weeks already
Had spoken to my gynae. He said to go his clinic tomorrow to check n dont move too much. Rest on bed. But I worried my boss will unhappy as had been taking mc since after I'm preg
Thank you all for e concerns.Im trying really hard to get rid of e idea that i might b having a down syn baby.
things dont always go so well ya,husband doesnt seems to really care.Im lik e only beng happy about having second baby.
Sometimes it just hurts too much .Sometimes I just gonna b strong for my No1.
I know i will b fine one day,but it takes some time.
How come your Hubby dont't care, didn't you all plan for the no.2 before having it?
I think no matter what you should be strong and positive as you already arrange for the Amino test .. Look forward to it .. The result come out then think about it. I know it's hard but you have the be positive for the little one inside.
Feeling sad now, baby will feel sad also. I feel for you .. I am praying for you . No matter what is the end decision you made ... Right now you have to take cAre of yourself . you always let me know if I can do any help for you !
Your boss know that you were pregnant yet? Hmm.. Well no choice but you really need to have rest, to avoid anything to "happen". Bosses are always like that.. dont't cAre your health more important... you can always find a job.. you r having a baby should take care of yourself more )Do you MS now?? Hmm..when you r at your 2nd trimester (starting from 12wk .. Doc will tell you need even more rest... The baby getting bigger.. you will start to feel All the buttock aching & backaches.
Dont worry so much, it will affect your baby also. Be happy n positive. then you will have a happy baby ..
im so sad to hear about your sadness.. im having my 2nd one and im 34 this yr.. i never thot of that with this pregnancy.. just pray hard and always think positive.. i know its hard coz all of us know how pregnant mom feel... just get advice from different gynae.. at least less worries for you and your hubby..
i need to check with all the mummies here if they know about 3d or 4d ultrascan.. i want to know how much does it cost and where to get it and wats da procedure.. .. think of getting one for my 2nd one..