Thank god my hubby is reasonable, coz I told him there is no pt for me to stay Hm n let his grandma take care of me as there is a language barrier between us.. (I dont speak fluent Cantonese, and I can barely understand it..) also, I dont find it nice that an elder has to take care of me..
So whenever my mother in law tries her luck w my hubby, he will tell her that it's better for me to do it w my mum as my dad n sis r extra helping hands.. (coz my hubby can't be there for me all the time due to his wkg shifts) n if I get weird mood swings, at least my mum noes hw to handle me.. If I 'explode' at my mother in law, it will be catastrophic..
My nxt pblm will be baby's full month as my mother in law insist on doing it separately from my family..
I think it all boils down to communication.. Speak to your hubby.. I literally cried to my hubby when his mum pressured me to do my confinement w her..