Well , if they will listen to me .. then I won't b so headache.. Been asking for 1/2 yr.. But no result.. So what I can do is follow their lousy plan.. My in law where can help me in cash? She also earn very less.. Not even my mum too.. All earn super less.. Only enough for themself.. N I never tin of asking from them by cash.. But actually my in law change away to help in try very hard to get 2nd hand baby stuff from her friends n relative.. So we no need spend too much on it.. But most of d item I still prefer in 1st hand.. Like stroller .. As you kno all once used .. Their wheel might not be steady.. So I get new 1 ourself.. But cot get from her friends..
n to their confinement plan is he will b taking leave for a week to stay hme help out , but what I can tel is say nicely is help out.. But most of d time sure stuck in d room playing his sickening games.. For house cleaning , d most I only can request him to do cleaning everyday for just a week which is with in his leave.. Like vacuum n mop floor , wash ours n baby clothes .. But I'm sure he gonna mess up all d clothes for us.. Cos I usually dont allow him to wash or hang clothes.. Coz all will b very messy.. Although just throw inside washing machine.. But d way he hang d clothing.. I'm sure all of you will faint.. Even fold all d clothing too.. All my shirt will b a big mess.. But what to do.. Only can ask him help.. But d worst tin is , his wrking shift wrk..is not allow to change shift.. Have to follow their schedule .. Once he wrk noon or mid nite shift , then I sure die.. Cos d most noon time my in law can help out.. But not much .. But at nite ? Im sure no need sleep .. Cos need feed bbs n wash bottle or what ever tins.. N to my in law.. She d most will cme at noon time like 12++ to cook confinement food.. Actually she dont really kno how to cook those food.. But learn from her friends who kno what to cook confinement food.. then will wash those bottle for feeding n clothes.. then around 3-4 will go back wrk .. As she wrk as cleaner.. So flexible timing to go for her wrk.. then at nite whether she will cme my house again I'm not so sure.. D most is cme n cook again n go back.. I did not ask her to stay over as i dont want to tired her so much .. Although I kno she always say she's fine to help.. But for my character is will feel uncomfort to treat my in law like a maid to handle all this stuff.. + I did not even have a proper bed for her to sleep in my house too.. As im staying 3 room flat .. N d space is limited not like those old type 3 room.. My is smaller.. As your kno.. All new flat comes in super small size.. After placing baby wardrobe n cot.. Doesn't have any space to put 1 more bed.. what we have is only those foldable bed.. But asking my in law to sleep at floor .. I will feel more discomfort.. Like I ill treat her.. Will feel super bad.. So she say she will go hme every nite if she's here's to cook.. So after a week of his leave.. Mostly I will b alone with my baby in d house at nite.. I'm just scare that I can't handle well.. As I'm 1st time , dont have experience taking care of baby.. Specially new born.. Scare if baby sick how.. sigh... Even just half day cl, they also dont allow even I able to find it now , even it's cheap.. Not even a part time cleaner.. Can dont even tin of asking .. sigh.. So only can bless hard every tin can go smoothly for their so cal wonderful saving plan.. T _ T " ..
I also kno we need alot of rest.. N specially cannot carry heavy tin other then baby.. If not the stitching will torn n d wound might get infection.. But they must listen to me , then can rest.. But they did not even give me chance to explain .. + his mum shld kno .. Seen she have 2 kids like him n his sis.. But still dont know how to spare a thought for me.. So sad..
Sorry every 1 , that I nag nag for so long.. sigh.. Force your to c n listen to my nagging story..