This is a discussion on EDD June 2012 Mummies within the Year 2012 Mummy forum, part of the Mummy Meeting Place category; Originally Posted by eve34 I have the same problem. Initially mother in law says she wanna look after baby. thought ...
There is one infant care by NTUC but about same price as Cherie hearts plus NTUC will be on waiting list.
but my parent in law prefers my gal to go infant care so she can become more independent.
Ya. Plus infant care got time constraint. Can only leave baby there from7am onwards n gotta ppick up before 7pm. Else gotta pay penalty I heard. The nanny I found only look after my neighbour primary two boy (1/2 day till he goes school). She's quite nice cos she told me she reject another lady who also wanna ask her to look after her baby. This means she will only be looking after my baby n the boy. Plus she has been looking after the boy since he was very young so I think she is ok. She also didn't impose any time to leave or pick up baby like infant care or the nanny my colleague found
Well black angel I already trying to control .. But still cant.. Mayb b cos I'm not use to face others parent .. Although Is my hubby parent.. Is b cos when I young , have a very bad experience towards others parent.. So affraid to face ppls parent.. O ya.. So you mean d skin peeling is baby changing their skin? When will finish changing? Wonder how cme peel off so many skin specially on his feet n neck.. Hand too ..
Last edited by Joeychen85; 20-06-2012 at 08:24 PM.
Haha.. Mine is hands peeling.
Baby can stay awake for an hour now before fussing back to sleep again.
Ya, eve, infant care will have fine if you pick up late. Normally is 15 mins $5.
Cherie hearts is quite good, that's explain the fees. But infant how to be independent? Also have to wait till when he's a toddler.
Joey, I understand. Staying with hubby's side is never easy. Nowadays I keep on crying because I miss my home... Hai.. So feel like going home but dont't bear to leave dear son here.
An mummies, my baby like to sleep on one side .. How??
I took laughing gas when I was delivering my gal....for me it feels like i m on drugs...very very high loh.. haha. And it's very effective for me cos I dont need to take epi after that. But it depends on individual...Originally Posted by snowdoll:661877
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hmm seems like different people have different reactions to laughing gas & epi..and the effects of epi kicks in after it has worn off. sigh, think i dont think too much first, when it comes then see how. now worry so much also no use.
now im already on leave at home resting, but the hot weather is making me feel lethargic and restless...
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Black angel - ok , now I kno .. B cos kip c him skin peelin , hart feel pain .. thought his skin very allergy.. But his neck always has those like pimple kind.. Is that nappy rashes? I kno diaper rashes but dont know nappy rashes.. Or actually is d same..?
Mrs Wang - ya never easy.. Once your hubby side his parent.. then you will feel more sad.. I thought we stay together without his parent .. Will b only 2 of us.. Who knos .. I tel him that I dont wish his parent to stay with us.. Cos I dont like .. Cos my temper not good.. Cannot control 1.. I dont want to lose control on his mum.. To me.. Every tin I not happy or tin is not rite.. I will say out straight.. Won't kip to myself.. Tats y I'm not those type that ppls parent will like.. Even my mum some time I also tok like tis.. But my mum understand me.. So she will not mad at me.. But to his mum, although never say out .. But I kno I some time is quite rude to her.. Is just b cos you kno .. once a quest you ans plenty of time .. Sure will pek chek rite? She can kip repeat same quest every few hr or days.. Told her before, but she kip ask d same tin again.. Hai... then I kno she gt wrk in d morning.. But I already in nite shift to tk care of my boy.. So she can rest , then once baby cry she will wake up n c .. then repeat n repeat n say dont let him cry too much .. Later gt wind .. Blah blah.. I listen till I sian.. then told her no need wake up .. We can handle.. I dont want her to b tired.. then complain rite.. then she just never listen.. Kip on wake up.. I so feel like asking him to let her go back hme sleep.. No need stay.. Cos I every time c her wake up n cme c c.. Very bek chek.. I scare her cannot tahan.. sigh .. + although he say he already try his best to help me on tkin care of baby stuff.. So I can rest well.. But d tin is.. D rest of d time that his free .. He will play his game again.. then even I seat beside for long time.. we also never tok at all.. Is like we r just stay in same house nia.. He start neglect me again.. .. Hai.. Some time I feel like go back my own house n never cme back.. I also very sad b cos of tis.. But jenni say dont cry.. Too much, will affect eye side.. But my eye just can't control
Last edited by Joeychen85; 21-06-2012 at 04:04 AM.
H0w t0 pr0duce m0re breast milk??
My b00bS d0nt SeemS t0 have milk..
Yah, my baby also have heat rash. At night is so hot and humid. She is sweating a lot.
surprisingly until now, my baby didnt sweat at all. even if we swaddle him and place him in the living room with no fan on. at night he sleeps in aircon room, 25 degree. ytd night keep wanting milk and didnt sleep. every 1 hour needs milk again. mother in law say maybe too cold, but i think ok . we swaddle + he has a thick blanket on + long sleeves. my room no fan also.. how? let baby sleep living room meh? sians... must also let him get used to it . my mother in law they all keep scared baby cold. sneeze means cold. so once hear sneezing, on a hot day blanket + swaddle.
but amazingpig, sleep on a side is ok? they say later head will flat on a side.
joey.. from delivery till now, i almost cried everyday.. miss my house, my family, my quality time with my hubby. my hubby still plays his D3, but still will look after baby as baby's cot is just next to his computer. he has also resumed work, come back straight away play with baby, sometimes i feel neglected.. hoping everything will be better in the next few months. your mother in law also love the baby alot, like mine. midnight like to help, which I feel is a relief because I am very tired and having backache with all the bending. but your mother in law got help you at night? or just say say then go back sleep?
i realised all of us has become owl mummies... can reply in the wee hours. lol
Joey and mrs Wang, last week I also been through the emotional stage. Nothing also want to cry.
It Must be the hormones.
but I never cry everyday, two incidents which spark me to cry...
sigh..then cool myself down saying things will be ok...
super tired, only slept 3 hours yesterday...
whole body aching as well, massage lady said I too much wind in body.
CL driving me nuts as well...