This is a discussion on EDD June 2012 Mummies within the Year 2012 Mummy forum, part of the Mummy Meeting Place category; Originally Posted by MrsWang Just curious, jenni, you married and gave birth quite young? Yes I was 28 this yrs, ...
Jenni - wa so young.. I'm 27th but only 1.. Actually I hope to have 1 more.. but c him like tis feel like .. It's better not.. I want 1 more is b cos I want my boy to have company in d future.. n say real if future once 1 of us not around .. At lease there's 1 more to support rite.. Been 2 funeral of my relative.. They need to stay awake for few days.. Although tis I tin too far.. Buts it's true.. 1 is not enough for a family.. sigh.. But me n him gt future .. Still unknown yet.. As for my character.. Might give up ..
Jenni - ya .. Young n have baby gt good n bad.. As you say mayb can b when rch 40++.. Lol .. now at lease baby 20 I only 47.. Hai.. But see tis situation.. want #2 is impossible .. never know future I might b single mum.. Cos surround me 1 , friend hubby left them before has child.. B cos #3 party.. never kno what will happen nxt sec.. I always believe on tis ..
Just now when I am bathing, I experience minor swollen pain down there. Today already 2weeks plus, the wound should heal by now.
anybody still experience minor swollen pain?
Afternoon, my baby vomit out quite a lot of milk ( about 2 tablespoon), she is on formula feed. Does anyone encounter this on formula? Is it reflux? Only on fm then she vomit, breast milk she never vomit.
She only poo once a day when on fm, previously on breast milk, she poo like 4-5 times a day.
FM is heaty so let your baby drink water too, if you dont let baby drink water next time very hard for you to feed water coz baby not get used to it... breast milk contain water so they drink breast milk also gt water, FM is diff...
Jenni - Erm just mentally prepare .. dont wish to tin last min.. Cos every tin I do.. Always advance then last min.. So in d future tins you will never kno .. Although I tin tis way.. But
My life still as usual.. Notin different.. lol.. Mayb is too over .. Lol.. Kua zhang
But we can feed them water meh? My mother in law say cannot.. Still early..they r still young..
I can't imagine having #2. Seriously can't. The FIRST thing right after I gave birth was to tell my hubby, no more #2. LOL!!! I think I went through too much trauma having natural birth w/o epi. Everyone says I'm good, pain endurance level very high. But no, I can't tahan the pain at all. I just BOBIAN, how can give up halfway when already giving birth? I shudder at the thought of it. Now I think back, I am crazy to even think of wanting to be induced initially. Thank goodness my rashes went away at week 36. End up baby also came early at 37weeks2days when I planned on inducing at 37weeks. Haha. And my babycot + sterilizers came on 20th June when they did not state the delivery dates, just in time for my babygirl. Really heaven's will. Only thing is my parents just left for overseas only. Just A FEW HOURS after they left, I went into labor. Haiyo... Hahaha. My mum was still telling bbgirl to be good and dont't make me so pain, wait for her come back then come out if not she will beatbeat her. So funny...
Anw, I feel like shitting and I am totally petrified. I know I should just go or I will be constipated. But how to clean up later?!
If just get stitched, will it hurts or made the wound worst when pooing? Lol
use the water hose after your business, then slowly wipe dry.
Like you I also phobia, but actually it didnt hurt. I think walking hurt more than pooing.
Jenni, I did feed water, about 10 ml to cleanse the milk on her tongue.
Last edited by Amazingpig; 25-06-2012 at 01:57 AM.
Petpet- it doesnt hurt like i thought it would. Only discomfort when the vagina muscles contract. The poo is soft and just needs a gentle gentle push for SOME of it to come out. Otherwise it comes out quite naturally. Only thing is, I'm still sitting here not knowing how to clean myself up. Lololol!
Amazingpig- i dont have a hose here. I think i'll just keep rinsing with water then wipe the back part and pat the rest till clean.
Anw it's ok to use the herb bath water to wash up right? Cos i didnt finish the entire bath water. Anw the herb bath water can keep how long? I still got more than half a pail. Thinking of topping up hot water and reuse. Can anot ??
Amazingpig- OOPS i just realised the existance of something called the shower hose. I was thinking of the other kind of hose. LOL.
Erm I poo 2 days later.. But gynae will provide you poo softener.. Syrup type.. Drink .. Poo soften .. Will not pain.. I poo twice a days.. at 1st I scare will pain.. But I can't it any more.. So bout 2nd or 3rd days .. I go poo.. But feels notin.. So dont worry..
I also gave birth w/out epi n the 1st thing that came into my mind after giving birth was no more ... haha. My experience also quite traumatic. I went to hospital after my contractions were 10mins apart n I thought the contractions then were bad enough . Anyway I was sent home after my midwife checked that I was 2-3cm dilated. She said to come back to hospital when my contractions are 1-2mins apart and she told me that could take up to 12hrs....
So we went home...we left hospital at 5am, reach home at 530am...by 7am I was crying nonstop .. I rang midwife and she said to meet in hospital at 830am cos she wanna have her breakfast 1st. OK. Nvm. We reached hospital at 830am despite the morning peak hr jam n I was cursing n swearing in the car n I hated the hospital n my midwife for sending me home!! (Btw....I m in nz so the system quite different from spore ). Finally we reached the hospital n I was crying till very very cham . Then of coz my midwife did not reach the hospital till 9am n the system in nz is that nobody will do or give me anything except my midwife. So I dont have any painkiller and I have to sit in the delivery suite n wait for my midwife to arrive. Finally she arrive n after a long time of fiddling, she finally hook me up on laughing gas...oh...what a relief!!! Think by then it's 930-945am?? And at 1038 I gave birth to my ger ger
So that's my ordeal but by now honestly I can't rem how bad the contractions are n the level of pain associated with it ..... I m ready to have my #2 So I think you will forget the pain in a few wks time n ready for your #2 as well
So good got poo softener....nz dont haveOriginally Posted by Joeychen85:663977
Dreamalyn- WOW, your ordeal is terrible! How much dilated were you when she finally decided to hook you up? To have given birth within that 1 hour is really FAST.
My contractions were on average 5mins apart and I was still reluctant to go hospital, kept thinking it's nth, that it might be false alarm. Till it reached 3mins apart with more intense pain, then I gave in and went to hospital. That was 3am and I reached hospital about 3plus. Put under observation at 4am and doctor came to check at 5am, I was 6-7cm dilated. I was still trying to endure the pain but it was getting more and more intense, close to tears already. about half hr later they push me to labor ward and gave me laughing gas. I gave birth at 0750hrs. Quite glad it wasn't that long for me. I only rmb at 8-9cm I was starting to scream and cry. Hahaha.
I will let nature take its course. If I accidentally have #2, I will definitely go thru with it. If not, im just not planning to have another one. Hahaaa!!
Joey- i took the poo softerner as well. I love the taste of it. Hahaha!!!
Engravedx - I dont know .... I only know not long before I gave birth midwife said I was 9-10cm dilated....so I reckon when I was finally hook on laughing gas I was 7-8cm dilated??